finally i found the coven i have been looking for. they have almost all or all of the beliefs as i do. my bisexuality doesn't matter with this coven because of the great rite i feel more comfortable with girls sexually. there isn't a priestess or priest. its the four elements and spirit! i am so happy now. i am finally getting help with all the problems that i have. so things are working on that point! yay to the the porn world!