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Nice!

I seem to remember something about this back in the 80s. I'm glad you brought it back to my mind.

I see you found my family photo.

i talked to trees as a child, as i have shared a few times.. most recently i talked about it in the "a place for natural spirits" thread. I think I stopped because I became older and kids made fun of me, and people told me it wasnt possible or real. It happens to a lot of kids... seeing ghosts, faeries, auras, etc.. but they are taught it is not real and it is implanted in your mind that it was just make believe, causing a block. It is very hard to open it back up because most knowledge is actually learned before age 6, its the developmental stage and childrens minds are like tiny sponges... theyve been taught it is not real at a young age, so its harder to believe it as you get older...hard to explain but it has a lot to do with psychology and sociology.

How does the eye focus on an object? By paying attention to it. Telepathy is a similar sensory activity. Focus on telepathy, focus on his telepathic ability. That is all. The answers will come as your child grows.

i have never gone throug emdr, but i did receive therapy at the intensive trauma therapy clinic in west virginia for ptsd from childhood. it was meant to take events from the nonverbal part of the brain to the verbal part of the brain to reprocess the trauma. life changing it was. i had no idea my whole being was based on this trauma. im interested to hear more of your therapy. love.

That is great! I have not tried EMDR personally, but a friend of mine has been doing that for several months in conjuction with talk-therapy and gestalt therapy, she's told me it is very helpful.

She has major problems...I just heard her husband smashed her laptop when she wouldn't listen to him and now she's "sick" again....having one of her vortex episodes, no doubt. There are so many layers of crap in her life, I wouldn't even know where to begin if I did have the means to help her.

OMG! You didn't mention she was an addict! Protect yourself, protect your son. If she ever decides to get clean, then maybe consider reconnecting with her and help out if and when you can.

You are right to send her love and light... she needs all she can get from the sound of it.

My dad made it a game. Just like other games we played like geography or 20 questions.

I think the most important thing to do those is to pay attention to the things that detract from the ability. And maybe to help your child anticipate and deal with it. I wish I had said things to mine when they were little to tell them more to honor their spiritual intuition even though our world is constructed in ways that typically tear those things down.

Why apologize for removing an energy sucking vampire from your life? She sounds like a nightmare waiting to happen to your family. You are a good person even if you don't bend over backwards to love everybody.

Trust me on this. That small uneasy tickle in your gut, that tiny mist of guilt she can smell is a sign that is time to creatively abandon this association.

Hey, avoidance is better than goodbye. Less drama. Seriously, would you let her have anything to do with your best friend? Probably not! She is on a self destruct mission. Don't let her drag you under too. Avoid.

Okay, thanks King! This will start me out. I'll post the details when I get some results.

Ok since I am new and I have no idea how to respond to you except through here. This is how I will tell you. I meant in order for your child to begin his circle yours must be complete you have to be able to see it. And in order for that to happen you need to tune yourself more frequently. Tarot cards are cheap there is nothing better than your gut instinct being able to feel your son and for him to feel you. You need to be able to feel yourself completely first. Now there are exercises with meditating. With a calm setting nothing infront or around you with controled breathing focus on your solarplexes. Now if you feel pain it ussually means your worried about something and you need to look into it if you feel good that means something good is going to happen. To maintain focus I have found it best to feel nothing cause thats when you are at your most comfortable. To much good can lead to putting off and anger or pain can lead you the wrong way. You can try this with him when you have done it enough to feel so comfortable to the point that you can control it to always balance itself out ok I sincerly hope that this helps you out. And threw this method you should be able to get those answers you are seeking.

I have a 4 year old I am open and honest with her about everything. And I also catch her when its just her and I and she is completely focused on me you can actually open her mind with your thoughts. By concentration and deep focal thinking, And they will respond with a reaction but it may not be the reaction you are use to just be ready for it, but 100% of the time there is a reaction. I would say the hardest part is if your not used to opening that part of yourself up yet then I suggest to meditate deeper and just let it happen and don't force it.

My friend was supposed to do it for me but we forgot =[

all tarots readings done for me turn into love readings. I just had a friend read my cards last night haha.

Very interesting about you and your friend

Thank you!

I've noticed myself that when I'm best tuned in to other people's thoughts and feelings, it's when I'm not trying. I can't do crap when I try, but when I'm not paying attention, it sort of opens the doors up. I've also noticed physical proximity and an emotional bond help greatly, but it may be different for your son. I hope this helps. Good luck with him.

Thanks Indigo Dog! There are some great ideas here! I like the magnetic words thing because standing in front of the fridge and moving words around will get his whole body in movement...which I think he needs at this point. Thanks so much!

To encourage some young children I was minding for the Summer we invented a great game. They needed some work on being creative and reading and writing so we made a book.

I asked the little girl to tell me a story. ( We used puppets, but you could use action figures or stuffed animals.) She would start the story line and I would illustrate the story. She would write the story down under the illustration. We stapled the book together and decorated the book cover. She was very proud of the book and showed it to everyone.

You could have your son draw a comic strip and help him letter it.

There is a game you can buy at the book store. It has words that are backed with magnets and you compose sentences and arrange them on the fridge.

Just pay attention to what he loves and have him write about that.

Play Mad Libs with the family. Hilarious and educational.

Give him more protein in the morning for breakfast to focus his attention. Get him to sleep earlier in the evenings.

That would really bother me too. It is a good thing that your son is safe and no real harm other than his own worry and fear came to him.

As difficult as this situation was for you, try to consider your neighbors POV too. Even on going illnesses can wear on people to the point of forgetting their commitments. You offer no details, but if she is experiencing pain, lack of sleep, etc. this could have affected her memory. All I am saying is try not to see it as a deliberate abandonement.

I'm with you though, I would never put my child in their care again. It's obvious they have too much on their plate already.