Understanding autism, understanding your child

[Elleke]

You know that game children love to play?

‘I spy with my little eye something with the letter…… C.’

What if it isn’t just a fun game but reality? What if you are a human angel that lives in an institute cause you really spy things others don’t see? What if you shout of the rooftop to be heard, but nobody hears you?
What if some day another human angel walks to you and can hear you!
That is magic, that is wonderful!! That is what is happening more and more these days. We create the safe space for special angels to expand their wings!


I spy with my little eye something with the letter C. I spy children and their parents.

My clients are often souls who live between different worlds.

Although reality as most of them experience is threatening for them, we often have a lot of fun together. In this and in other reality’s.
To make the transition smoothly from one reality to another is something we all can do by nature. We can do this by reaching out a hand from one dimension to another.
But most of all by being clear, defining your energy well and by being focused with your heart open.

Dolphins and crystals are often mentioned to reach these souls. They have in common that they all have an outwards radiating vibration. It’s the vibration we vibrate when we are consciousness about our own multi-dimensionality. Then you can give every object, word or sound the vibration of a dolphin or crystal. The key of that magic is in your heart, it is the portal to all dimensions.


Difficult.. isn’t it when you read stuff like this every time, but don’t feel it, or scratch the wallpaper of the walls shouting: Yes, but I really don’t understand my child, He drives me nuts!
Don’t be afraid to ask for help then.. The most beautiful thing you sometimes can say is: “I don’t know.” It is really a challenge to raise a child that seems to be so different.
Most people in the spiritual area know that your brave child has a great gift to bring to us all.

Responsibility

It is of most importance to not take any responsibility for the soul of your child, or his development. This may sound unnatural. As a good parent you want to take care of your child and create the right environment your child will need and more. Of course you feel yourself responsible to watch your kid in the traffic and by fire.
As a seed grows in ground: You can make the ground perfect, give it healthy nutrition, watch for the weather, but you never ever can be sure that the plant will actually grow.

Even more when your child has a ‘disability’ or is autistic you want to take extra care of his environment. When your child shows behaviour “problems”, damages his environment or itself, you face great challenges. Know that in this challenges the strength of your child lies! It’s a great gift. It’s natural for a parent to take too much responsibility for your kid at first. Your social environment can give you extra negative vibes by judging your child’s behaviour and the way you are raising your kid. This will change as you choose different and follow your passion. You are walking a way that isn’t walked before. With the new way you raise your child you will create a path for many others. It’s a very respectful contract you are fulfilling.

I know very loving parents who do everything for their child and create the “perfect” environment to grow up. It’s not a guarantee that your child will end up doing things you rather want them to do. I know souls that ended up doing criminal things while apparently having the “perfect’ parents. Remember that the contracts and the road souls walk are uniquely theirs. There is no right and wrong. Everything is an experience and carries a gift.

Borders

When your child is autistic and lives in different worlds you can create much clarity by defining your own energy. The more you define your energy the easier it is to connect with you. It has no use to pull or push energetically at your child. To be open and let go of you expectations is a helpful tool in this. It’s my experience that this space can be created the best by being honest and direct. To be integer and make sure all your vibration lines ( acting, thinking, feeling etc) are in harmony. By being very clear about your boundaries. Stimulate your child. Make this dimension attractive to be in with cool games, music, stones, structure, repetition and most of all an open heart. Honour the dimensional travelling of your child. In a world that is so overwhelming there is no greater gift than clarity and structure.


I imagine an experience from a child between dimensions like this:

I imagine an experience from a child between dimensions like this:

I can fly! I fly trough the universe, over the rainbow to places so beautiful, so great and amazing that I want to stay there. With my wings I fly far far away. My body lives on earth. Earth can be so weird. Constantly there are branches from the bush in front of me, I have to struggle to make a step in your thick dimension. My wings get trapped in the trees. Monkeys throw coconuts out of the trees. Then I just act as if I am not here and I go playing with the colors inside my head in another dimension. But I can’t stay there, cause I am here also in my body. I rather be in my heaven on earth all the time. They pull and push me back and forward. They don’t like it when I am off playing inside myself. But I like it a lot. Sometimes I see beautiful things in front of me, that reminds me of the other place. I like it the most when I experience something that makes everything come together and one. All the noise disappears in those moments and I can be just myself. I can fly! I can’t handle it when that feeling disappears again. Then I get so mad and I go kicking. I break everything I love when that happens. I try to communicate but they can’t hear me. Then I destroy things to talk with them. I don’t care about the stuff anymore at those moments. It’s my way to ask them to listen to me, but most of the time they don’t get that. They get mad or want to punish me. I go playing with the colors and flying shapes again when that happens. I choose where I want to be.
Often I get overwhelmed by colors and smells, images, sounds and tastes. That hurts. The other dimension is so thick it can’t flow trough me. I also get pills. I have less trouble with the overwhelming energy’s when I take the pills. I can’t play well with the colors, and I don’t have those experiences that makes me feel myself again. It feels like the pills create a fog in my head and my body seems to slow down. The pills destroy my wings. And I want to fly! Would they know I am actually Superman flying faster than the wind?’

Every time I hear a doctor or psychologist wondering: “If only we could take a look inside his head” a smile at my face appears.
Then I tell in words that can be heard what I sense at my client. This is not always easy, cause I work outside the woohoo world. It feels real cool to plant the right seeds at the right people. Sometimes this asks a lot of patience and perseverance. Often it isn’t necessary to tell all I sense at a client. It can be enough to drink a cup of tea with my client or taking a walk together. Sometimes I have to shake the ground and show my light in a bombastic way to make space for changes in the environment of the client. It’s a challenge to don’t take any responsibility for what isn’t mine, to honour every choice and to speak my truth.

Sometimes it would be easy to speak in a meeting about crystal energy, about the evolution of humanity, multi-dimensionality, about clean rooms, crystals and other gems. About healthy food and unconditional love.
There are already many places where these worlds come together and those places will grow and become bigger. We choose to let go our old believes, we dare to step with a toe into another dimension.

There lies the answer that completes many questions humanity asks itself about the approach of our children...

More practical tools that makes it easier to connect and understand your child you can find here:

http://lightworker.com/Spectrum//cat...ns-of-passion/

Love Elleke

[Dabbs]

Beautiful! Thank you! Have a *hug*, I know they're few and far between!

[LadyElement]

beautiful

[the original watcher]

im one of those kids who experiences a majority of life viewing from the higher dimensions, seeing colors and shapes, geometrical patterns, adamantine particles , smells, tastes, and of course the energies, and encountering the thicker ones is yack.
i tend to destroy any part of creation that isnt higher vibration.
i also mirror all and am a walking mystery.
yay, love ya!

[the original watcher]

oh and visions too, all this stuff just flows through me, however when those thicker energies come around, well you get the idea.

[Elleke]

Thanks for your hugs!~ and feedback!

Love Elleke

[crue_boo]

im one of those kids who experiences a majority of life viewing from the higher dimensions, seeing colors and shapes, geometrical patterns, adamantine particles , smells, tastes, and of course the energies, and encountering the thicker ones is yack.
i tend to destroy any part of creation that isnt higher vibration.
i also mirror all and am a walking mystery.
yay, love ya!

I am also like this...although I am not considered autistic and it's never been suggested. I have a lot of different problems that don't seem to show; I'm actually very popular and get calls everyday, and I have about a dozen or more guys crushing on me (it's sad how people seclude autistic people although). It's almost as if the people around me just see the positive side and kind of ignore the fact that I have a really hard time relaying my thoughts (which is the thing that shows my difference the most to people not able to think spiritually)...it's almost as if when I speak, it comes from a recording that my brain makes and sometimes it gets tangled and skips like a CD. But hey it only happens once in a while. Back to what I was saying before about all of my problems... I seem to have the following: ADHD, OCD, insomnia, iron deficiency, restless foot disorder, Parkinson's?(i vibrate), arthritis, life long back and knee problems, bad memory. Now since I have both ADHD and insomnia (iron deficiency can play a part too), I am very very active in the brain, but my physical body is ALWAYS so exhausted. I have this energy that gets trapped. What could all of this mean? An average "inside the box" thinker would see these symptoms and call me stupid, but I actually have the IQ of 146 at 17 years old, and can pretty much do whatever the hell I want to do with great expertise :P . What am i?

[crue_boo]

And to add...I am literally OBSESSED with colours and sound (not noise), as sight and art are my greatest qualities. I love to sense everything around me. Can someone please give me an answer about this : I have always been able to control what I feel. When I was younger I would fake sick because I just couldn't build the physical energy to walk to school or get up. Now, I am a person who is never sick, but whenever I claimed to be, I would get that exact sickness about 1-2 hours later (I clearly remember the pattern of the time it took). If I said I had a belly ache, I'd start to gag.. if I said I had an ear ache, my ear would be poppin and aching all day..you get the point. I am also a Christian (not catholic) and believe that God has a lot to do with all of these miracles and such...but I used to just think it was God punishing me for my lies...what do you think? I think it's God of course because he rules everything, but what smaller factor is making this happen?
Another example, is my way of hearing voices in my head, seeing things, feeling things, smelling things, tasting things..basically experiencing whatever I imagine...its crazy. My ability is so strong that I can actually have the physical symptoms of being on a drug like Magic Mushrooms for about half an hour, JUST from someone telling me a story about their trip. It confuses me a lot of the time because I see, hear, and feel spirits more often than they are actually there because I think about it...and there actually IS a difference that I can indicate between my imagination and the real thing, but it does still make me go a little crazy hehe:P

[crue_boo]

Oh and I forgot to add that I am apparently bipolar and have a split personality hah

[h0bby1]

i love your posts crue_boo, i can related totally with what you say around sound and colors obsessions, and lots of brain disorder i can also relate to , and the way i handle social relationship etc sound and colors always obsessed me too, it is why i can spend hour on my computer to play with pixel and sounds and programming multimedia things, it never bore me to create colored soundy things

for the thing around controlling the feeling i would say you can explain this in decomposing a bit the different part of you mind that enter in action when you feel something, and i think somewhat when you feel something, there one or more part that originate 'something' which will only become a feeling when another part will have processed/interpreted it, and i think by more or less mastering some part of your brain you can alterate quite easily feelings or even biological functioning, like yogi who can control their body temperature or heart beats, i guess you can do the same with lots of things , including feelings several ppl will not feel the same toward a same thing because they interpret it differently, and i guess you can somewhat take control over you 'interpreting box' and then create different kind of feeling you would not have in the same circumstance with another way of interpreting things

[Satisfiction]

What am i?

You are you!

Congradulations. You are the only one that can live and experience life as you, so do it well

[crue_boo]

i love your posts crue_boo, i can related totally with what you say around sound and colors obsessions, and lots of brain disorder i can also relate to , and the way i handle social relationship etc sound and colors always obsessed me too, it is why i can spend hour on my computer to play with pixel and sounds and programming multimedia things, it never bore me to create colored soundy things

for the thing around controlling the feeling i would say you can explain this in decomposing a bit the different part of you mind that enter in action when you feel something, and i think somewhat when you feel something, there one or more part that originate 'something' which will only become a feeling when another part will have processed/interpreted it, and i think by more or less mastering some part of your brain you can alterate quite easily feelings or even biological functioning, like yogi who can control their body temperature or heart beats, i guess you can do the same with lots of things , including feelings several ppl will not feel the same toward a same thing because they interpret it differently, and i guess you can somewhat take control over you 'interpreting box' and then create different kind of feeling you would not have in the same circumstance with another way of interpreting things

Yes this makes a lot of sense ... I am very influenced by my thoughts...and have even given myself an extremely high pain tolerance. While dreaming..I can even control the speed in which i fall down so that I don't get hurt.