Mature Topic- parental discresion advised

[lilwing1979]

Okay we get a lot of what is love around here, or when do you know it's love and so forth. So I'm gonna through a little perversion in this.....

I know there are a lot of sexually open people out there so please show up and help me out here.

Between a man and a woman, do you think that it is love when she lets u put it in her no-no hole? First I had this guy tell me that's when he knew a girl loved him, when she let him do that. Then I had another guy tell me that when a girl lets him do that it's a compliment because it shows she trusts him. Is this true? Does anybody else see it this way?

Discuss....

[Anomalia Zelta]

I think some guys/girls/etc use this psychology to get you to have sex with them. You should ask them at a later time if they ever had sex with someone they did not love.

[lilwing1979]

Yea-they have had sex with people they didn't love but now are in a commited relationship and use that to gage how serious she is about them. I don't think this way, but it's an interesting topic. Just goes to show how different people's ideas of love are....

[Aris_G.o.w.]

i believe that it's a change from the state of love to the state "i wanna put my 'piece of meat' into another 'piece of meat'". that doesn't show love, it's a biological and mind will. it's passion, an extreme form of it i would say. some like it, some don't.

[Stargazer7]

If anal sex equaled love homophobia might not be as rampant. I feel it is manipulative to say that only a certain type of sexual act equates to real love. "Well, if you loved me you let me play with your pooper." To me, love means that it’s okay to tell someone when they’re full of $hit.

[Anomalia Zelta]

I don't think this way, but it's an interesting topic. Just goes to show how different people's ideas of love are....

Yes, you are right.

[oreides]

"Well, if you loved me you let me play with your pooper."

lmaaaaaooo best quote thus far in thine threads

[Idle Thoughts]

Anal sex it upto the individuals. it is not to be forces up anyone. If you dont feel comfortable with the notion then tell them plain out no.

Sounds like they dont know what true love is. They equate love with sex (especially anal).

[MiamiSound]

[Hearsekid]

yes my ladies call this poop dic%

[Silverhaze]

sex is just an act
it doesn't have to have anything to do with love

[Hearsekid]

yeah sex is random sometimes, but really fun in the right spots, but when love is involved, it can last for 8 hours..

[MiamiSound]

Fuck the butts... Lets go Bowling, LilWing

[justin]

Fuck the butts... Lets go Bowling, LilWing

yeah, what he said! Let's do that!

P.S. I love sodomy, especially on a brisk sunday morning. mmm...brings back memories...

[oreides]

butts = love?
even if i loved the guy, it would take a HELL of a lot of tequila and some vicodin to get me that adventurous.

funny thing: i've found more women that find me STRANGE that i'm not at all curious about that adventure.

i just say, i just enjoy sex damn fine enough as it is. i doubt it could get any better.

[Satisfiction]

Sounds like someone trying to psyche you into it. If you don't wanna do it, then don't. If you do want to do it, then do. It's not so much about love and trust, it's more about if you want to do it. You might absolutely love and trust the person, but you don't want to do that particular act. Personal preference. don't ever be pressured into doing something you don't want to do, just to prove your love. Because that is not real love.

[bluewaterdance]

Very backwards thinking on the part of these guys.

If I love someone I express it in the ways that are comfortable to me.

Trust is created when people respect each others' preferences and boundaries.

[lilwing1979]

ah hahahaha

yea fuck it dude, let's go bowling

[lilwing1979]

Sounds like someone trying to psyche you into it. If you don't wanna do it, then don't. If you do want to do it, then do. It's not so much about love and trust, it's more about if you want to do it. You might absolutely love and trust the person, but you don't want to do that particular act. Personal preference. don't ever be pressured into doing something you don't want to do, just to prove your love. Because that is not real love.

They are not trying to psyche me into to the poop shoot love fest, this just came up in conversation. I'm very open and talk openly about sex with people. I thought they we're kidding, they we're not. So hey what ever tickles their pickle and if it tickles their lover then hey.

[Dabbs]

I think I can honestly say that I've heard it all now...

How old are these people who feel that love is shown through anal sex?

Sorry, but I see a bunch of virgin geeks sitting around a lunchroom table, voices lowered... one keeps looking out of the corner of his eyes to make sure no girls or teachers are around... After this conversation, did they play chess or check out the latest movement they programmed into the robotic arm?

No offense to any computer geeks here... hubby included.
I personally am very attracted to computer geeks... and science geeks...and math geeks... (my thoughts are, if they can get that passionate about something like computers, science or math... heck, they can definitely get passionate where it really counts)