how to breathe when.........

[lillies1978]

you loose a loved one, through death, fighting, break-ups and other ways people successfully manage to split and go seperate ways???

i feel like i cannot breathe......imense pressure on my chest h......... my heart chakra is tight.......a dull pain vibration through my core, endless...................

how can one detach from the people, how can you detach from the pain...............i have felt enough, don't need, don't want any more!

i need to breathe

[roseyaire]

1. Ask Archangel Michael to use his flaming blue sword to cut the cords between you and the other person. Release them with love and gratitude.

2. Mist yourself with a mixture of frankincense and rose oil. This is excellent for grief. Rose oil has the highest frequency of all essential oils.

3. Morganite is an excellent stone to attune you to Divine Love, and to help heal from relationships that ended badly. Wear a pendant over that heart chakra. It is a pretty inexpensive stone. Check ebay.

4. Put yourself in the light of the holy spirit, and just cry and feel the pain. Don't be afraid of its intensity. It won't kill you, but in the end will make you stronger. In the words of Kahlil Gibran, the deeper sorrow carves a hole in our being, the more joy it can contain. Paradoxically, there is a raw beauty and power in deep pain and grief. Even this type of pain can be transmuted into power, mastery, compassion and joy. Blessed Be. You are a dear child of the Universive, deeply beloved.

[lillies1978]

thank you so much!

[roseyaire]

Lillies; I have been thinking about you. Please let me know how you are doing and feeling; PM me if you want. I'm here to help.

[Patryc]

yup - archangel micheal rox big time, him and metatron are my two biggest buddies in the angelic realms. They help me out all the time especially with attachments / awakening roles. Metatron is gifted in awakening. He has a golden light. Archangel Micheal usually has a bright white light - at least that's how I usually visualize him, he has a big sword that cuts attachments in one swift blow, I visualize attachments melting as the sword flashes and a rainbow colored spark eating the attachments away till I or the person I am helping is free.

[lillies1978]

thank you guys, i really appreciate your care and advice!!!

somwetimes i think i'm simply too sensetive for this world........when i'm in pain(non-physical) it feels like i'm ripping apart from the core........and then on other days i think i'm a spoiled brat that never learned to deal with life....i don't know, but what i do know is that it sucks, big time! last nnight i added some thc to my bloodstream, which didn't take the pain away, yet it allowed me to take a deeper breath, not the shallow death breath =)..........i'll try to get one of the crystal pendant you recommended, and see hoe that goes.......usually when i'm wearing pendants, my solar plexus goes nuts(clear quartz, black tourmaline, aqua aura, amber and sometimes i wear malachite)

truth is though, that i brought this drama upon myself, knowing what was to come, therefore i shouldn't wine about it , right?!

again thank you, it means the world to me right now!

[roseyaire]

Whine about it? Maybe not so much.....
Wine about it? Definitely!!! I recommend a nice pinot grigio or some cabernet.............

HAHAHAHAHAHA

Your alkie friend,
Kathy

[lillies1978]

sorry, misspelling is a hobby of mine =)))))))))))))

[roseyaire]

Oh, I'm not calling out your spelling, just my love of the grape! Glad you're feeling better.

[lillies1978]

not really, but what isn't going to kill me, is gonna make me stronger, right ;-)

[roseyaire]

what isn't going to kill me, is gonna make me stronger, right ;-)

If you so choose! I see you filled with the light of a thousand angels..........