Being around people !!

[proammar]

Do you guys enjoy being with other " normal" people ? Can you guys stand talking & joking or even living with other people ?

About me i just get bored & sick when i sit & talk with other normal people , i feel like i have to go down with my brain level to make the communication with other people , even if they were educated or older than me , its more like a 40y.o man talking to a 3 y.o kid .

That makes me bored to death , all what i am asking for is some intelligence , i know its kinda rude but i really feel like i am living in the stone age & that makes me depressed .

[weareone]

sooooo truuuueeee

i find it extremely difficult to be around people who dont "get it".

this is probly the hardest thing for me at the moment, dealing with mindless masses.

im trying to give loving positive vibes to everyone, even if they dont understand

some people get freaked out and nervous-why is he smiling so much? hehe

but then i know that ive made a big impression on alot of folks

[proammar]

sooooo truuuueeee

i find it extremely difficult to be around people who dont "get it".

this is probly the hardest thing for me at the moment, dealing with mindless masses.

im trying to give loving positive vibes to everyone, even if they dont understand

some people get freaked out and nervous-why is he smiling so much? hehe

but then i know that ive made a big impression on alot of folks

Its the same with me , thats the hardest thing in my life , sometimes i really get sick of people , i used to live in the middle east & i though people are like this only in there so i decided to move to north America & i got the biggest shock in my life in here , i found out that all humans are exactly the same no matter where i go .

[serapj]

Do you guys enjoy being with other " normal" people ? Can you guys stand talking & joking or even living with other people ?

About me i just get bored & sick when i sit & talk with other normal people , i feel like i have to go down with my brain level to make the communication with other people , even if they were educated or older than me , its more like a 40y.o man talking to a 3 y.o kid .

That makes me bored to death , all what i am asking for is some intelligence , i know its kinda rude but i really feel like i am living in the stone age & that makes me depressed .

same here
i find them not open minded to accept other's beliefs and opinions

[Natascha]

true-true, i don't like big groups, makes me nausious, seriously. but thats because i have to work on my barriers still. Sociolising, bah. whats the point. They don't get me ayways. I become more the observer. heh.

[Elleke]

I find it an challenge to talk about the same, but then in other words.

For example someone else talks all the time about his car, and how cool it is, and that it drives well. I tap into the feeling behind it.
Perhaps abundance.

I know the energy of abundance and I can talk about that, in simple, practical words.

We talk about the same then.

I understand that you wanna connect with people, and that they understand you. it sound kinda boring, but the language of love understands everybody.

I found it also frustrating in life, that I thought noone understanded me, and all those stupid sheeps where boring.

Quite arrogant dont you think?

Because they use different words, and talk about different subjects doesn't mean they are boring. They have a different way of express themselves. they have different believesystems perhaps, which make it for you hard to share your feelings, thoughts, opinions. Use your heart to connect.

And for the easy way of communicating with people who are on the same flow as you, can challenge you intellectual, and know who you are in a blink of an eye, I suggest you attract other people around you. Create your own family.
You are not alone.

Love,
Elleke

[Natascha]

Oh i don't think i'm arrogant elleke, its more that i am a calm person who can't cope with large groups, i prefer sitting on the side, interact with a max of three. otherwise i'm overwhelmed. I understand what you mean.

[Elleke]

yeah I know,

I like also calm places, less people, etc.

I mean it's arrogant to feel like I am higher then another
or my being is more than another.

[Elleke]

arrogance can be cool though

[Natascha]

if you have it *smirk* i am very modest. I am who i am. And besides, being a little arrogant isn't bad per-say, that way people around you know your boundries right? wish i as more arrogant. *ponders*

I like to help people so much that i loose perspective and then people start to use me. NOT good. *sulk*

[proammar]

I find it an challenge to talk about the same, but then in other words.

For example someone else talks all the time about his car, and how cool it is, and that it drives well. I tap into the feeling behind it.
Perhaps abundance.

I know the energy of abundance and I can talk about that, in simple, practical words.

We talk about the same then.

I understand that you wanna connect with people, and that they understand you. it sound kinda boring, but the language of love understands everybody.

I found it also frustrating in life, that I thought noone understanded me, and all those stupid sheeps where boring.

Quite arrogant dont you think?

Because they use different words, and talk about different subjects doesn't mean they are boring. They have a different way of express themselves. they have different believesystems perhaps, which make it for you hard to share your feelings, thoughts, opinions. Use your heart to connect.

And for the easy way of communicating with people who are on the same flow as you, can challenge you intellectual, and know who you are in a blink of an eye, I suggest you attract other people around you. Create your own family.
You are not alone.

Love,
Elleke

Oh its not only the subject that bores me . & its not about the believes , its about their minds & way of thinking & talking , its like they are very simple , like most of the people do have a very simple programmed minds , & thats what makes me bored so fats .

Like yes iam ready to spend the whole day talking about how fast & cool that car BUT with a sophisticated intelligent way .

Like when i talk to people i don't use the full power of my mind i don't even use 20% .

[Patryc]

if you have it *smirk* i am very modest. I am who i am. And besides, being a little arrogant isn't bad per-say, that way people around you know your boundries right? wish i as more arrogant. *ponders*

I like to help people so much that i loose perspective and then people start to use me. NOT good. *sulk*

ya that's the hard one - I often fall into that trap. Try to help and have them start to abuse it. Sometimes I will attempt to help by being there for them and showing them love even when they give me anger or other base emotions but that is difficult for them to deal with as they expect anger to be returned when they give out anger. Eventually there's an animosity that comes into it. That's when I have to disconnect myself from the situation.

[jsps13]

I think it's also about creativity. When we socialize we also need to have some creativity joining words or phrases, or even "give birth" to new ways of talking. That's how I am sometimes.

I can talk to people about anything, don't have any problems, but there are those kind of people that can only speak about one thing and like to repeat it over and over again.

I'm not rude, but sometimes I fell like saying "Okay! I already got the point! Change the freakin' topic!"

I like to be among crowds... but only if they're people like me or like you. People who can communicate and enjoy it, not making it a god damn puzzle! People who don't have problems being who they are, people who are capable of giving and receiving love (and no, I'm not talking about sex ).

I hate when people start starring at me (and my best-friend) when we enter this bar/pub we're used to go. It just makes me mad sometimes! Everytime we go there people always stare at us, like we have a big purple monster behind us! (I wish I had a big purple monster, so it could eat all those people's brains and replace them with nicer and loving ones!)

OMG! What an essay!

[einsteinthinkslikeme]

I don't get along with people who does not have a lot in common with me. I never Really get along with anyone really ,So in other words ya . I am like that to.

[hrishi]

--xx--

[Natascha]

ya that's the hard one - I often fall into that trap. Try to help and have them start to abuse it. Sometimes I will attempt to help by being there for them and showing them love even when they give me anger or other base emotions but that is difficult for them to deal with as they expect anger to be returned when they give out anger. Eventually there's an animosity that comes into it. That's when I have to disconnect myself from the situation.

Oh we'll manage, takes some firm shoes to stand in and say, NO. hehehe, easier said then done...ah well!

[Patryc]

Oh we'll manage, takes some firm shoes to stand in and say, NO. hehehe, easier said then done...ah well!

indeed, anger to me is rather repulsive now so I just leave them in their own anger and they try to put a reason to why I don't respond to the anger, they try to justify themselves by saying I am running away, or that I am not trying to solve the problem but really that is how I solve the problem - to walk away - anger requires triggers, if I am the one triggering the anger I leave. For me it's problem solved, if they wish to fester in their anger and not let it go, then that's their choice but the lesson I'm trying to teach is that anger is repulsive and self destructive. It's not an attractive trait or constructive trait, I think this is part of my transition to crystal as I used to respond to anger with anger as an indigo, it never helped me, just aggravated the situation. Now I just leave. Disconnect from it. If I am threated with physical violence I react but in a defensive manner. I never attack anyone. I'm compulsed to protect.

[detroitpixie]

true-true, i don't like big groups, makes me nausious, seriously. but thats because i have to work on my barriers still. Sociolising, bah. whats the point. They don't get me ayways. I become more the observer. heh.

I couldn't agree anymore, it's not that I am "smarter" it's just that usually what they have to say isn't a great interest to me. I really have to work on my barriers as well because sometimes I become an emotional basket case. I think that these are reasons as to why my empathy skills have become so intense because I have become the observer. I would just like to learn how to be able to influence those who usually bore me into discussing things I am interested in. In the past when I have attempted this I am just looked at as "weird." I don't like big groups either, I mean I really really love being around groups of people, having company of many but conversing with many, not really.

[detroitpixie]

but there are those kind of people that can only speak about one thing and like to repeat it over and over again.

I'm not rude, but sometimes I fell like saying "Okay! I already got the point! Change the freakin' topic!"

I like to be among crowds... but only if they're people like me or like you. People who can communicate and enjoy it, not making it a god damn puzzle! People who don't have problems being who they are, people who are capable of giving and receiving love (and no, I'm not talking about sex ).

A-FREAKIN-GREE!!

[i_c_nina]

I totally relate!
I have a hard time to find a mate that has the same intellecualy level as me. I had to break it off from my boyfriend of 4 years not only because he couldnt keep it in his pants, i was always groaning about how 'stupid' to me he seemed.

He just erked me the wrong way, So materalistic. I was not driven by gotta have the latest and the best. I am happy without all that. Yes, those 'toys' are nice to have, but not be obsessed over it. So closed minded.

Grrrr, just venting.. when someone finnaly makes fun of your beliefs infront of others you realy see the true side of them. I am glad not to be obligated to him anymore.. My cheeks hurt from faking a smile all the time. LOL