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Reply With QuoteIt's kinda funny... I am a bisexual woman, I am extremely picky about men to the point I hardly get anyone on a date with me who is male - but when it comes to women its another matter, pratically a cassanova
... At least I am honest about it haha!
Before I go ahead and explain my dreams there is some important information I need to share about myself to help you better understand the contrast of these dreams.
I am a lesbian, I've always had a tremendous attraction to women since my first crush in Kindergarden *Giggle*. I've been in a very well off relationship my my Fiancee for about 4½ years now. I am head over heels and am strictly addicted/commited to her. (I do not find men attractive at all to me in any sexual or pleasurable way I am all about the ladies.)
Now with that said, over this past year I have had several intimate encounters (Not sexual just I am very attracted and drawn to this guy, - if anythign we've kissed and it was very passionate if anything) with a Man in my dreams that I can pick out of a crowd of people and I am completely drawn to this man - its the same guy every dream. Last night he revealed his name to me being James - he did say a last name but of course my subconscious has allowed this to slip from my mind. In this particular encounter I am passing through a hall to go down some stairs and I didn't even see him but found myself turning my head to the right to see him standing there in a group of people and they were all smiling at me. I asked him his name "James _________". I felt a stronger bond than I have ver before with him at that point, almost as if I just realized who he was subconsciously in my dream. I said to him "I don't who you are, why you're here, but I am drawn to you. It confuses me, I am a lesbian but incredibly attracted yet drawn to you, like I need to be near you." And Him and the group of people just smiled, he nodded to me and I turned and went down the stairs and woke up. I've never felt so drawn to anyone in my life or anything like you can imagine and I know this deep down.
Any suggestions who this might be? I may be intuitive about other people but not about myself. I am open to all ideas - any help is greatly appreciated.
Anyone else going through something similar???
Abstrax
It's kinda funny... I am a bisexual woman, I am extremely picky about men to the point I hardly get anyone on a date with me who is male - but when it comes to women its another matter, pratically a cassanova
... At least I am honest about it haha!
DONT DREAM IT BE IT!
Know thy enemy
Don't live in fear of words alone, live in fear of the actions behind the words or what may happen if those words are never uttered!
Oh, I have a friend called james who is looking but he is in his 40s
DONT DREAM IT BE IT!
Know thy enemy
Don't live in fear of words alone, live in fear of the actions behind the words or what may happen if those words are never uttered!
LOL Thanks for the replies they made me giggle. XD
This James is probably in his mid-late 20's.
Abstrax
YaY for Bisexual women*giggles* Im bi also but I tend to be picky about my women more so then my men...and to answer your Question Abstrax
Proud to support my friends!
I was considering that myself or I thought perhaps a really attached lover from a past life? But I was more so leaning towards the Twin Flame but I didn't want to seem like I was jumping to conclusions. Another guess was Spirit guide but really I don't know if I would have been quick to choose someone that I was that intimate/drawn to for that? It would be conflict of interest no? LOL... who knows. But it's been on my mind all day.
I've had many visits from spirits in dreams - and validated their visits with friends/family but this was the first time that someone has visited me for me if that makes sense lol.
Abstrax
still trying to figure out what i am- hehehehe its funny im really no atracted to anybody-
The first step is the first for a thousand miles, I've hit the ground running.
I don't think its unnatural not to be attracted to anybody. I've encountered several people who aren't. Who knows that could change someday.
Abstrax
does sound rather twin flame like
am pretty sure twin flames are in opposite sexes bodies so that would explain your attraction to him despite the fact that you are a lesbian
what did his energy feel like - did he feel like he was part of you - that you felt somehow complete being near him ?
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I just felt that I absolutely had to be near him - words can't really describe what it is I felt. It was a loving sensation - it was like infinate, I was also terribly anxious my energy was unbearable.Originally Posted by Patryc
He was tall with a medium build, sandy colored short wavy hair. Blue/Hazel eyes much like my own which tend to change colors actually. I asked for him to come back last night before I went to sleep. I don't know for certain if he did or not because I don't recall it. I wanted to know more obviously lol.
Abstrax
No I could see his face perfectly clear. Which is the bizarre part.
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