without awareness

[anomoly]

I have bumped into quite a few people on here who realized all of a sudden that their differences wernt so different. That they fit in here. Im one of them i guess what i mean is just realized that their indigo and i was wondering about a friend of mine I have always known that she was like me and she never realized it we always clinged to eachother and now she is moving more towards normalcy than she is freeing her mind more like she is not only walking into a prison but loking the door and throwing away the key Im concerned about her and right now were nottalking because i tryed to keep her from going and she didnt like it. any one else have experiences like this and i think i might have loast her to the pressures of socioty its like she just gave up and died. whats the deal and do you think i can help her its like she never realized her gifts like she never knew they were there but i can see them so clear. Can i save her? how can i tell her without freaking her out or is it just to late?

[rug]

true love to me means allowance. letting one do what they want, without trying to control them.

when i am in this dilema i look at the persons soul, their heart. and there i see peace and i have faith that they are doing whatever it is that they need to do

[anomoly]

she saved me once from msking s huge mistake that changed the cource of my life i feel like i owe her the favor in return besides she isnt really happy even if i couldnt feel it in her eyes its plain to see it on her face. I dont know but it kills me to know what she did for me and know that she doesnt see herself doing the same thing.

[EnemyAtLineSix]

there is not a single thing in reality that is not aware.

[anomoly]

I think you guys are missunderstanding the question, and are clueless to the history between me and her. Me and her have been friends for quite a long time and have been through hell and back again. She isnt happy i can see right through it from the fake smile she trys to paint on her face to the shine in her eyes that hasnt been there for a while.

[defuzz]

inspire her
and listen for confirmation to proceed

[anomoly]

easyer said than done but il think on that one.

[Satisfiction]

I have a friend in a similar situation, trapped within the confines of the Christian world. She is very frustrated at the lack of integrity within the church and is yet to figure out that she is the one that is different and not fitting in, not everyone else.

All you can do is inspire and ask pointed questions and be there to talk... each person has their own path and you need to let them walk it.

[EnemyAtLineSix]

im a generalist. among other things ;p

[anomoly]

ok i dont mean to seem ignorant but this has very little to do with fait of a religon this girl used to be happy she used to come to me about everything we used to be close friends she saved me once from really fucking my life over in a BAD way she kept me from selling myself out. now i see her willingly giving up her freedom and i may not have the right to interveen but i know that she would have done the same thing for me because she already has our relationship has always been a you watch my back and ill watch your kind of thing well she isnt happy any more more like depressed and telling herself that she is happy just to make it seem alright ive been there before too so dont say its not possible. I guess if all you guys can do is say to sit back and watch then screw it ill do it my way but i gurantee you i wont have a back to watch any more because shes gonna hate me atleast untill she realizes what i really did. Im asking for help because if it wasnt for her then i wouldnt be where i am in life not by a long shot hell i prolly would ave killed my self from the depession inspired by the circumstances i put myself in to.

[anomoly]

this could make a very good philosophical debate in regards to society. should we interveen or just sit back and let the will of the public take its course?

[lillies1978]

...have faith that she is meant to walk this way while you are walking another way, she may needs to make other experiences before she can be "aware", or this isn't the lifetime for her to be "aware"....letting her go, may be the only thing you can do for her right now, perhaps be open for to come back to you/"awareness" once she is ready!

love&light
Sue

[anomoly]

I suppose according to all of you i should just say have a nice life heres my number don't loose it ill be here when you need me but your on your own. perfect but I cant do that because i know her i see her i know where she is at im closer to her than her mother brother or anyone else is and i should just let her wither away from a wound she inflicted her self? Id rather die myself than watch something like that I guess the thing is every situation is dynamic and there is not one size fits all answer but let me tell you this nothing is not the answer that will fix this or help it she was born aware she has used these tallents hell she even outdoes she had fought beside me and then said i give up and turned around and walked up to the enemy and said if you shelter me feed me ill surrender thats not her. stand by and watch or say stop ill carry you till the battle is over or untill you get your strength back ill feed you and ill shelter you.

[lillies1978]

ok...do you know, why she cannot believe right now? if you do you could try to proof her "wrong"....you know her so well, maybe you can think of something that could make her believe.....but be aware that you might only have one shot and that she might write you off as crazy!(happend to me)

also, truly ask yourself, if youare trying to make her stay around with you cause YOU miss her, and YOU want her to be there, YOU think this is best for, maybe even cause without her you feel alone in the world again....or if you really do this for her and only her, cause our attachments can cloud our judgement!

Know that you are not alone

love&light
Sue

[anomoly]

Im married and in another country away from my wife kids and what family will still talk to me. alone isnt a problem. right now my concern isn't making believe she is aware that there is somthing different about her she is aware that she is stronger smarter and wiser than everyone else but she also hasnt been tought what those things mean and i can speak for that myself i didnt know the meaning the name or anything else before i found this site what im saying is she is just tossing her warrios spirit to the side and giving up the world cought her by the foot while she was running and now she hit the ground hard its like the will to fight supression was saped from her. but no im not ready to say hey guess what your an indigo and that means your psychic because like me for a long time i put my abbilitys to the side. for traditional ideas. that to me is somthing different because awareness comes in good tme that you are right aboutbut thats not the problem she is just plain giving up. like i did once before and she picked me up disted me off and said get your ass going before i kisk you in the ass. I tryed that approach with her and got a you dont understand this is different get away.

[lillies1978]

maybe you could give her something to read from here, either show her the site, or print something out, that site has helped many to really believe in themselves....

http://sunfell.com/indigo.htm

i pray for you guys

love&light
Sue

[anomoly]

thanks now that is actually a bennificial Idea.

[Hearsekid]

SLAM WAH bump ∟crickets

[inferno_dragon377]

If this was a situation I was in, and I can relate to various parts of it. I have lost several potential friends because of different views. Anyways, I would first start by apologizing to them. You said that you were not talking because of whatever. I would start by apologizing, and opening up so that they can talk. If you allow them to talk maybe you can both come to an understanding about what is going on. Then you can win them back. That is my advice.