Stop running from what you are, Stop wasting time and potential.

**Frostborn** · 09-22-2010

The problem is due to trying to be what you are not.
You cannot be what you arent, a dog cant be a cat no matter what.
You need to understand your qualities and use them, they are huge. But also respect qualities of others you dont have.
Its give and take, the social confusion is thinking that you are like most others and you try to see yourself in others but to connect you must acknowledge the difference.
You have alot to give that any pother loves, but you also have problems if you try to deny your nature. High awareness can be used to in a positive way where you
are creative and thinking in ways others dont, but also it can be negative if you deny it, fear it coz you dont see it everywhere.
Dont try to be others, be yourself and you can start loving others even for how they are different from you, dont obsess in the thought of meeting
people that are just like you. You cant see another person and succesfully help them by thinking how you would get better, understand and love booth
you and others, have understanding for their weaknesses and dont fight yours. Dont heat them or you. Its to easy to hate others for being so unaware there have been massacres.Where they lack there is also a part where you lack and others see clearly.
Im 20 years old, my life started recently coz i drove myself crazy trying to understand how i could just be like everybody else it thought i was sick, thought i was a defect, scared me with bullshit like "adhd" "aspergers" bla bla youre not social incompetent if you where you wouldnt give a shit you wouldnt be on this forum. You cant focus coz youre boored you dont use your energy you become a zoombie.
Now i think back with another perspective i see how i won at times i thought i was the one with a problem, the exploring, i dont regret doing stuff that was my nature i regret everything else. if you'd die right now how would you feel bout your life?
You are already complete theres nothing to seek.
I cant recommend meditation enough.
peace..

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**sean keyes** · 09-22-2010

well fuck me, i just had this argument this evening with a friend off mine telling him that we are what we are, nothing more or less, thast a good one, i totally agree with what you are saying, the more w try to be like someone else the more we lose what we should be , ourselves

**Frostborn** · 09-22-2010

I think alot can be helped by this , indigo's are not complex to reach , especially when it comes to the identity.
It doesnt take much you just gotta find the right words. to tell from own experience how easy it is to fuck it up but how easy it is to
find oneself which opens up a new world of pride and suddenly you understand others more and feel compassion for how most others
have less awareness so you want to help them and when you do they give back what they have to offer
, there has actually been prophecies about this its kinda cool. i will repost this every week to ensure as many as possible just
read it and reflect on themselves.

**builderofcastles** · 09-26-2010

Stop Running from what you are, Stop wasting time and potential

This life is about learning what you are. Yes, you can waste time avoiding that,
however, in the end, you will find you wasted no time whatsoever.

This life is about learning what you like and what you don't like, not about getting anywhere.
There is no waste.

Pretending that you are something that you are not, like you said, usually
just winds you up in trouble and pisses off the other person that you were
pretending for.

You are perfect, just the way you are. Not perfect as in the end-all, be-all
but perfect as in whole and complete in this moment, becoming more
and desiring more (not complete) in the next.

Wanting to fit in is not a bad desire, it is the idea that you can change yourself so
that you fit in that is bad. In the same tone, you do not get in the face of christian
and tell them how you see angels and demons all about and talk to god personally,
this usually just brings drama into your life, and does not get you anywhere. Simply
be yourself and find those people you can get personal with, and understand that
there are always gonna be some people who disagree with you.

My only real departure from what you said is in what you can become.
You can become anything you desire. Changing things like being a bipedal
human who exists in a three dimensional world of space are extremely
difficult, but they can be done. You can become the person you want to be.
If you want to have many friends that share your views, then it is as simple
as accepting that you are a person that these kind of people would want to
be friends with. If you want abundance, it is as simple as accepting that
abundance is your right (because you exist in this 3d world).

All you have to do is want it (ask) and then accept it (receive).

Accepting what you are, is not a very easy task.
Most people find it impossible.

Enjoy

BuilderOfCastles