Let's have a tea party. http://www.teapartypatriots.org/Default.aspx
Your dad sounds like an angry person. I don't understand that mentality. I've known a lot of people like that and the common denominator in that type of personality is that they want to be respected. All of the internalized sexual repressions, subjegation at work, and stress of paying bills can make despise all the perceived weaknesses in himself. In turn he projects these onto someone else so that he can seperate them from himself and prove to the world that they are nothing like him. So they despise anything that resembles weakness, sports teams, races, fags, pansy ass liberals...lol
That's all it is. He just needs a hug and to be told that he is appreciated and loved unconditionally.