soulmate

[STARS]

My heart aches and yearns for him, it always has. It's as if I'm half alive without him, like I'm wandering empty through the world searching for him everywhere. How is it that I feel him all the time, like a faint memory or dream that never goes away. Life without him is a deeply painful experience. There is never a day that goes by when I do not feel that emptiness inside that emerges from our separation. I will find him... soon, possibly within the next 3 years. There will be a time when I finally give up on my search, probably after being heartbroken by someone I love. It will be a time when I feel happy and content with the who I am and the way my life is, that is when the reunion will occur.

I even know somehow what he looks like, and his mannerisms, and his voice, I can hear his voice. It's so clear and beautiful. I cry when I think of him, because he is so close and so real inside me, and I know he's here on earth somewhere and I cant be with him now, I cant touch him or kiss him, its so hard. I live because giving to him is the reason I'm alive, and without them I have no purpose, I have no reason. I need him. I know I sound like such a tragic romantic, but its just because I love this person so, so much, we've been together since the birth of our creation and we are forever connected, for all eternity.

I know how it will feel when we meet, it will be so powerful and my heart will open so wide it will seem to hurt. It will be as if for that one moment, the universe existed just for the purpose of bringing us together, I will be transformed in that moment and brought back to Source. It will feel as if every challenge I have ever had to conquer was completely and absolutely worth for just one moment of love with him.

True love does not just disappear with the amnesia, true love is too powerful to ever be forgotten, even in life. your soul mate remains alive within your heart no matter what realm you're in. You can be universes apart and still feel them inside you, waiting to be reunited again, waiting for that one, glorious, beautiful and ecstatic moment when you become alive in their arms, reborn in their love. I know with every part of my being that we will find each other, that I will find myself in him, and our love will transform the world and whomever we meet will be forever changed by our undying bliss. People are going to envy our love and I will be blessed, and I will know that the Creator exists and loves me , for granting me such amazing and ecstatic joy.

[LunaAngelica]

Very beautiful
Believe it or not, I feel almost the exact same way. Like I remember him, my soulmate, but I've never met him in this life. I've even drawn him before, and he's even somehow found his way onto the pages of my story. I write what he'd say as if it were second nature to me. I hear his voice. I know him. But I've never actually seen him outside my mind. He haunts my thoughts sometimes, like some broken record intruding into my songs, my words, and my drawings. It feels as if I know that whenever I meet him, the world will somehow come together as if it were broken all along in his absence.
And you know that this must be what true love will feel like. You know that this is what it's all about, knowing you'll love this one being and soul for all eternity. Because in some way, they've been in your life all along. You just have to wait for him/her to come.
I was told a couple of times that I was supposed to meet the 'one' in two to three years. Seems so long doesn't it?
But still, we sometimes find ourselves searching. Hoping for a hint or just a glimpse of their face in this place we call reality.
But for now, the only glimpse I have of him is a few hints of images in my head. Ghosts of memories. And perhaps even a name.
And so we continue with our lives, our hearts still belonging to someone from a time we may not be completely able to remember, but somehow know in the deepest depths of our hearts.

As an introduction, my name is Coral by the way. And I'm somewhat new here

Love Eternally, Coral

[STARS]

Very beautiful
Believe it or not, I feel almost the exact same way. Like I remember him, my soulmate, but I've never met him in this life. I've even drawn him before, and he's even somehow found his way onto the pages of my story. I write what he'd say as if it were second nature to me. I hear his voice. I know him. But I've never actually seen him outside my mind. He haunts my thoughts sometimes, like some broken record intruding into my songs, my words, and my drawings. It feels as if I know that whenever I meet him, the world will somehow come together as if it were broken all along in his absence.
And you know that this must be what true love will feel like. You know that this is what it's all about, knowing you'll love this one being and soul for all eternity. Because in some way, they've been in your life all along. You just have to wait for him/her to come.
I was told a couple of times that I was supposed to meet the 'one' in two to three years. Seems so long doesn't it?
But still, we sometimes find ourselves searching. Hoping for a hint or just a glimpse of their face in this place we call reality.
But for now, the only glimpse I have of him is a few hints of images in my head. Ghosts of memories. And perhaps even a name.
And so we continue with our lives, our hearts still belonging to someone from a time we may not be completely able to remember, but somehow know in the deepest depths of our hearts.

As an introduction, my name is Coral by the way. And I'm somewhat new here

Love Eternally, Coral

Thanks for sharing that, that was lovely. Sometimes it feels as if Im the only one who has these yearnings, so its good to hear of someone else who can relate to that, it remindes me that in many ways I am like everyone else.

[Panda Fanda]

I will find him(for me it's her)... soon, possibly within the next 3 years. There will be a time when I finally give up on my search, probably after being heartbroken by someone I love. It will be a time when I feel happy and content with the who I am and the way my life is, that is when the reunion will occur.

I feel the same way, I have not a whole lot to say, but the void hurts. I know that in the future, when I find this person, whoever it may be, I will have waited just the right amount of time, and endured all the pain that was needed to be, and life will shine twice as much as it already is with my soulmate. Just thinking about it, brings a smile to my face, cause it's like I can already feel it happening inside, so I think all that I'll do for now, is enjoy what I have, and sooner or later, there will be, the reunion.

Also, as an introduction, my name is Jerrod.

[LunaAngelica]

Glad to know I helped in any way! And thanks, you helped me too : )
I haven't really met any people until now that feel the same way. I'm glad to know that there are at least a few people that have felt the same things I have concerning a soulmate!

[VioletSoleil]

Hey, I feel the same way too! Just saying....
Yeah, I've been drawing him a LOT lately. Actually, I don't think I've drawn anything BUT him for four days...anyone else feel like you're close to meeting them? 'Cause I have to admit I kinda do...

[chartreuse]

STARS - you are setting yourself up for a big, big disappointment. Trust me - meeting your soulmate in the physical may seem like it's the destination, but really, it is only the beginning of the journey.

Knowledge of mine came to me in a waking vision (like a flash-forward) 18 months before we met. I came out of it with a ton of detail about him and all the feelings you describe, because for just a moment, I was in the body of the future me that was already involved with him, and everything she felt became a part of me when I snapped back into "real" time.

However, I made the mistake of assuming that once we met, everything would fall together. That has not been the case, and in the year+ since we first met in the physical, I've done enough research to see that indeed, it rarely is.

The connection was (and is) there, but so is a tremendous amount of confusion and pain, what seems like endless separation, and still, nearly 3 years since the original vision, we're not "together."

These connections are extremely challenging, and often the universe will do whatever it has to to keep you apart (even after you meet) until both of you are truly ready.

I'm not trying to discourage you, but just want to recommend that you steel yourself for what's coming. Get strong in every way (particularly spiritually and emotionally), get the various areas of your life in order, and understand even if both of you think you are ready to plunge in head-first, there are other forces at work here that may very well have a different idea.

[jessicasimons]

there should be a soulmate finding thread on here. i doubt it would go successfully....

[LunaAngelica]

Hey, I feel the same way too! Just saying....
Yeah, I've been drawing him a LOT lately. Actually, I don't think I've drawn anything BUT him for four days...anyone else feel like you're close to meeting them? 'Cause I have to admit I kinda do...

I think that I used to feel that way...but I sort of backed off from it a lil' the last couple of weeks. Not good to push things that aren't ready to happen yet. 2 years, 3 years, tomorrow, I'll wait either way... but I used to always have my eyes open for him everywhere I went as if I would meet him somehow that day...

I still always channel that 'he's always with you' which is sorta weird...but also makes sense in an equally weird way.

Niko (my brother's dog) is sick again She won't eat much...and I know she's old. So, I've been sort of going through a lot the last couple of days. But the other night, I had the weirdest sensation that I had wings and that my soulmate was with me. And he said, though it was as if he put the words into my mind since i didn't really hear his voice as much as I felt the words enter my head as if from him, "Everything's all right. Now and forever."

But it is a possibility that you'll meet him soon. Personally I feel like a lot of things are going to happen soon

[MYSTIKDRAGON]

I know soul-mates exist and for those that sense those so strongly, I'm sure you both have one out there for you.^-^ becuz those feelings wouldnt exist if there wasnt one out there waitin for just the right moment to pop into your life. And make a dream become your reality. Dreams can come true if you can invision them into your reality. Time can unfold such wondrous things...

[Zeliar791]

None of its worth it in the end...

[MYSTIKDRAGON]

None of its worth it in the end...

Thats not exactly true. Its becuz you believe its not worth it.. but how you do know if its not somethin you've experienced?

[Zeliar791]

Thats not exactly true. Its becuz you believe its not worth it.. but how you do know if its not somethin you've experienced?

I want to experience it. I am just frustrated that I am unable to at this juncture. Just a simple dinner at a restaurant with my favorite female would be like a dream come true... It is too bad I cannot get this arranged as of yet...

[MYSTIKDRAGON]

I want to experience it. I am just frustrated that I am unable to at this juncture. Just a simple dinner at a restaurant with my favorite female would be like a dream come true... It is too bad I cannot get this arranged as of yet...

If you want to experience it, that will take some concentration.. and invisionment. For example.. picture how she'll look her outer qualities and how her personality is like, and write them on a sheet of paper, it doesnt take too much time, then repeat them in your head, until you can imagine how shes like... And then just wait. Time unfolds alot of wondrous things.. Everythin is connected to time. Thats why if your not patient, dont expect to get very far, thats why you'll need it. Its a NEED. You just have to train your mind to be patient, along with the other things you need to work on as well.

[sshenry]

Yes - I know that longing that you speak of, and it seems that I spent most of my life searching, and longing, but what I discovered may not be what you want to hear, but the longing for a soulmate - for THE soulmate - the search for that one other that "completes" you begins with becoming complete in and of yourself for until you have learned to love yourself (in the deepest sense of the world), until you have become able to be comfortable with yourself - with no need for anyone outside of yourself to "complete" you, every search will simply bring you back to the same state of longing.

Once you have reached the point where you can remember the love, remember it with peace in your heart and thankfulness for what you once had and what you will one day have again - but without the "need" - only then will you find yourself face to face with your Other; the one who reflects you in your completeness back to yourself and for whom you do the same.

[John Reisinger]

I just gotta tell you how much this post moved me. Mostly because of your courage and authenticity to put it out there like that. What a joy to see there really are women like you who seem to want to unite in a Holy relationship for the purpose of co-creating heaven on earth through radical love and awakening : )

Even more funny is, I've actually written letters like this to my Beloved in my Journal.

Anyway, gotta jet and get ready for the Super bowl.

Peace and Laughter,

John

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If you want to experience it, that will take some concentration.. and invisionment. For example.. picture how she'll look her outer qualities and how her personality is like, and write them on a sheet of paper, it doesnt take too much time, then repeat them in your head, until you can imagine how shes like... And then just wait. Time unfolds alot of wondrous things.. Everythin is connected to time. Thats why if your not patient, dont expect to get very far, thats why you'll need it. Its a NEED. You just have to train your mind to be patient, along with the other things you need to work on as well.

This is actually how I found my soulmate, even though I'm really, REALLY young. And I know this to be true because when I'm with him, I'm twice as alive. He looks, he sounds just like I'd always imagined even when I was four or five years old. He has all the same aspirations, and it's really... We compliment each other so much. And I began listing off his qualities, writing about him when I was just 9, via the Sims 2 and stories I wrote about it. XD

Seven years after I began playing the Sims, ALWAYS making the same "dream guy" to always go with every sim I made, I met him. He lives in South Carolina, and a huuuge sequence of events happened that led me to him from Canada. Since then it's been two and a half years, and although for all of that time we've only been physically (as in same-country, same-house, etc) together a month, I can feel it with him.

On top of that, he's Indigo while I'm Crystal, and he's actually been helping ground me for all this time and not even knowing it.

Really, meeting a soulmate at any time is possible, even when the two are VERY little kids.

I'd really like to see a big group of people with empathy/precognition/psychometry group up and start the Soulmate Search Thread, but it wouldn't really work out well if they were wrong.
Hmmmmm...

[climbing]

Stars,

If it gives you hope, I felt everything you described about my partner before meeting him. After meeting him, I felt it even more! Actually, I felt things I can't even describe with him. It was insane. I WAS INSANE and so was he. After we met I stayed at his house with him for the following 2.5 weeks... remembering it is a blur. We almost couldn't physically separate from each other. Touching him brought on the most insane rushes of energy and awakening. It took some getting used to! In the beginning we used to just lay there, smushed up together on the couch laughing hysterically because the energy rushes "tickled" us so much... we were just blown away... we were like, what the HELL is happening? How can it be like this? We thought maybe we'd both died and gone into some sort of heaven or something. Or maybe that we both were really mentally ill in a padded room somewhere just randomly dreaming of each other. Or that maybe we were both victims of some strange brain disease, lol. It goes on and on.

But it wasn't all easy. After this first few weeks we were separated (he lived like 5 states away from where I'm from and I had somewhere else I had to be)... the "status" of our relationship was unclear, as he wasn't really ready for a serious girlfriend at the time, and we both had big plans that didn't allow us to be together. So we began a very confusing, long distance, on again off again relationship. It was HELL at times. I cried so much over him. Neither of us were ready for the intensity of what we felt and it was like it took awhile for our lives to catch up... it took awhile for our souls to process having finally met each other after we'd dreamed of each other for so long. It was like, whoa... this is really real.

After about six months or something of us being far apart *with a few visits in between that were always unbelievably romantic and magical just like the first time* and one complete break for a few months where I thought I'd lost him (he took off on his own traveling, it was just something he needed to do and had planned since before meeting me), he came back into my life and told me that he wanted to be with me and only me, forever.


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It was one of the most amazing things that has ever happened to me. It felt too good to be true. He moved in with me and I was a bit scared at first, but as time went by we developed more and more trust in each other, and our relationship grew so much. The things we have taught each other are endless... he has made me such a better person and vice versa. I always thought that the right person for me would be the one who I was the best version of myself around... and it's that way with him. I have never liked who I am more than when I am with this man. And he makes me feel so beautiful.

And as if our wonderful relationship, shared compassion, sense of humor, world view, etc wasn't enough, he also has helped me develop my abilities, so much! They say this happens with your twin soul sometimes. I can do and see things now that I never would have even imagined before. And when we make love... some seriously crazy stuff has happened... it's too much to describe but has to do with astral projection, kundalini awakening, and some other things I wouldn't even know how to describe. It's INTENSE!

Anyway, sorry for rambling on, I just wanted to tell you something to give you hope. As I have been in the exact place you are now.

Yes - I know that longing that you speak of, and it seems that I spent most of my life searching, and longing, but what I discovered may not be what you want to hear, but the longing for a soulmate - for THE soulmate - the search for that one other that "completes" you begins with becoming complete in and of yourself for until you have learned to love yourself (in the deepest sense of the world), until you have become able to be comfortable with yourself - with no need for anyone outside of yourself to "complete" you, every search will simply bring you back to the same state of longing.

Yes. I only met him after a very intense year of therapy and healing. I recovered from alcohol abuse during that time, as well as trauma from my childhood. I also did a lot of physical healing, traveled across the world on my own, and really "found" myself so to speak. I do think this is important as I would have completely lost myself in this intense bond I share with him had I not had a VERY strong sense of self beforehand.

Love is beautiful. We just celebrated our one year anniversary and I am more amazed by him than ever.

[nakspiel]

STARS - you are setting yourself up for a big, big disappointment. Trust me - meeting your soulmate in the physical may seem like it's the destination, but really, it is only the beginning of the journey.

Knowledge of mine came to me in a waking vision (like a flash-forward) 18 months before we met. I came out of it with a ton of detail about him and all the feelings you describe, because for just a moment, I was in the body of the future me that was already involved with him, and everything she felt became a part of me when I snapped back into "real" time.

However, I made the mistake of assuming that once we met, everything would fall together. That has not been the case, and in the year+ since we first met in the physical, I've done enough research to see that indeed, it rarely is.

The connection was (and is) there, but so is a tremendous amount of confusion and pain, what seems like endless separation, and still, nearly 3 years since the original vision, we're not "together."

These connections are extremely challenging, and often the universe will do whatever it has to to keep you apart (even after you meet) until both of you are truly ready.

I'm not trying to discourage you, but just want to recommend that you steel yourself for what's coming. Get strong in every way (particularly spiritually and emotionally), get the various areas of your life in order, and understand even if both of you think you are ready to plunge in head-first, there are other forces at work here that may very well have a different idea.

Hi!! I agree with everything you said!!! I thought I was the only one!! I think people dont really know what they are going to get themselves into, it will be the biggest pain you will feel, I met my soulmate but he is not ready to be with me at this time, like you said the universe is keeping us apart because the energy cord between us is to big, and he was going to end up hurting me a lot, I feel him and I love him still, and will always will, we cant be together because he is mentally ill and needs to recuperate from that, if I were to help him I wouldnt be alive because he feeds on my energy, the love between us was amazing, I was so happy when I met him but we also had karma to clear up, to make things worse. Now I find myself trying to be with other men but I can only see his face, I know he is not ready but I cant help to love him and hope he will get better, so the universe can brings us together again, I suffer for him even being a part from him. The universe is been trying to set me up with a few men, but I cant do it, I dont feel attraction towards these men, there is no soul connection. I waited all my life to find him and now Im still alone, Im afraid I will die loving him and alone, for the moment Im trying to recuperate from the hearbreak and trying to meet men, I feel very lonely and I cant even have sex with other men.

Finding your soulmate is not always good, I think that I will end up marrying someone I dont really love just for the sake to have a companion, it sounds aweful, I will die this way but I will keep the hope to find him again in my next incarnation. My spirit guides are doing everything they can but its really up to him to get better, as for me I will die loving him, we were together only for one month, two years ago and I still love him.

natasha

[IAMhere]

My heart aches and yearns for him, it always has. It's as if I'm half alive without him, like I'm wandering empty through the world searching for him everywhere. How is it that I feel him all the time, like a faint memory or dream that never goes away. Life without him is a deeply painful experience. There is never a day that goes by when I do not feel that emptiness inside that emerges from our separation. I will find him... soon, possibly within the next 3 years. There will be a time when I finally give up on my search, probably after being heartbroken by someone I love. It will be a time when I feel happy and content with the who I am and the way my life is, that is when the reunion will occur.

I even know somehow what he looks like, and his mannerisms, and his voice, I can hear his voice. It's so clear and beautiful. I cry when I think of him, because he is so close and so real inside me, and I know he's here on earth somewhere and I cant be with him now, I cant touch him or kiss him, its so hard. I live because giving to him is the reason I'm alive, and without them I have no purpose, I have no reason. I need him. I know I sound like such a tragic romantic, but its just because I love this person so, so much, we've been together since the birth of our creation and we are forever connected, for all eternity.

I know how it will feel when we meet, it will be so powerful and my heart will open so wide it will seem to hurt. It will be as if for that one moment, the universe existed just for the purpose of bringing us together, I will be transformed in that moment and brought back to Source. It will feel as if every challenge I have ever had to conquer was completely and absolutely worth for just one moment of love with him.

True love does not just disappear with the amnesia, true love is too powerful to ever be forgotten, even in life. your soul mate remains alive within your heart no matter what realm you're in. You can be universes apart and still feel them inside you, waiting to be reunited again, waiting for that one, glorious, beautiful and ecstatic moment when you become alive in their arms, reborn in their love. I know with every part of my being that we will find each other, that I will find myself in him, and our love will transform the world and whomever we meet will be forever changed by our undying bliss. People are going to envy our love and I will be blessed, and I will know that the Creator exists and loves me , for granting me such amazing and ecstatic joy.

That is exactly how I feel about my 'twin flame' (I dont know why I like that more than 'soulmates')... I'm pretty sure I know but I don't think he really knows yet, maybe I'm wrong. I talk to him constantly, I know on some level he hears me but I am hopeful he really is aware of it. We have quite the relationship behind the scenes in 'our world' and I don't know if he experiences it like I do, but it is intense and amazing...I cannot describe...

I feel that we do need each other to advance ourselves spiritually because we belong together and it's part of the process. I think it's just at that stage where many of us must reuinite because we are more power, more love, more light if we are together the way we should be.

I have found poetry this week I wrote about him....when I was a child. And you know what, anyone I have touched in my life, let's say makes me feel like I am being unfaithful to him and we have never met in person in this life. I've always talked to him. The last year has gotten more and more intense....and the past month...really intense...

I send lots of love to you to find him...you will, we all will and I don't think it'll be too much longer