Indigos in intitmate relationship

[amrarick]

What is romance like between two Indigos? I have so many spiritual experiences in sex that my partners do not understand, so it is hard to feel seen or met. Different than Tantric stuff. And, when anyone has met me in this place, it seemed to jeopardize their reality and they did not stay around very long. We had so much connection that "usual" sex was optional. We could feel each other across a room, across the country, or even an ocean.

Maybe things could be different for me with another Indigo who is not scared to be all of who they are?

Refusing to "settle",

-Angela

[Optimystic]

Maybe things could be different for me with another Indigo who is not scared to be all of who they are?

An Indigo who is not scared to be all of who they are is an oxymoron. By the time somebody figures that out, they're not an indigo anymore. They've moved beyond it.

[AquarianBlue]

What is romance like between two Indigos? I have so many spiritual experiences in sex that my partners do not understand, so it is hard to feel seen or met. Different than Tantric stuff. And, when anyone has met me in this place, it seemed to jeopardize their reality and they did not stay around very long. We had so much connection that "usual" sex was optional. We could feel each other across a room, across the country, or even an ocean.

Maybe things could be different for me with another Indigo who is not scared to be all of who they are?

Refusing to "settle",

-Angela

Oops i have that same problem...no intention on my part just an accident....It first happen in 1995 and then again now in the end of 2009..I am going with the concept refusing to settle as well.The heart seem to have a way of its own.
Usual physical sex optional? Really how can that be?

[MoSho]

Indigos in intimate relationship??? We are so fu*cked up here by our emotions... I cannot get to be in deep relationship anymore, even if I want...

[FirstWave]

I think you may be confusing romance and sex as love which it is not. It may lead to it but real love is pure and unconditional. Not based on romantic feelings, expectations or attachments.

[MoSho]

Real love is a combination of all feelings a human can feel... Happiness, sadness, fear, joy... And when we are that high emotional, those feelings are highly increased, so we feel the love at it's max... I cannot afford it to my nervous system. I've felt it enough... I prefer to feel my feelings separate

[Zaher]

For me, was all energy fucking energy (energy sharing), not really physical delight

[AquarianBlue]

For me, was all energy fucking energy (energy sharing), not really physical delight

Impression is that fine with you? invasive intrusive or just a good loving idea?

[Twilight]

It is hard for me to deal with love too. I am very sensitive to people's emotions too. It helps me just to talk about it or write them down for me. I sometimes have to tell my fiance that his emotions are going crazy and to just talk about it so that I can calm down. He looks at me and says sorry and then we talk about it. When emotions become too overwhelming for me, I normally take some medications that I was percribed for depression, though I know I don't have depression. It really helps

[AquarianBlue]

It is hard for me to deal with love too. I am very sensitive to people's emotions too. It helps me just to talk about it or write them down for me. I sometimes have to tell my fiance that his emotions are going crazy and to just talk about it so that I can calm down. He looks at me and says sorry and then we talk about it. When emotions become too overwhelming for me, I normally take some medications that I was percribed for depression, though I know I don't have depression. It really helps

Have you tried EFT? emotional tapping to when appropriate close off being too overwhelmed?
http://www.emofree.com/

I have some of this too but I am not able to talk or write about it as a form of healthy release...yet..

[MysticalJazz]

This happened to me once. It was intense and sometimes felt a bit incestuous. The energy was too much for us to be together for long stretches. Others felt it too. We're still connected and better off as friends. Sometimes love needs a lot of room to breathe. A lot of room.

[AquarianBlue]

happend to me quite by accident chatting online met one particalur guy...sense something immediately! Kaboom.. Seriously other people non indigo non sensitive could pick up on this?
i kept my hum..connection secret mostly because i just though it was my imagination and partly didn't know whta to think or handle it...but currently physical bf at the time picked up on something and asked me about him...

hum..i just went..blank hum..?nothing..

[Andrew Gubb]

I find I can only have an intimate relationship with an indigo nowadays. I just don't feel like accepting anything less.

I'm exploring telepathy with my girlfriend now... it's amazing and a bit scary

Love

Andrew

[AquarianBlue]

I find I can only have an intimate relationship with an indigo nowadays. I just don't feel like accepting anything less.

I'm exploring telepathy with my girlfriend now... it's amazing and a bit scary

Love

Andrew

How did this happen ? Did you two set out to deliberately open up for this or just an accident ? My mind is utterly confused on this subject esp telepathic connection as such.
I fear i have done this again.i must stop falling for people online..and then talk telepathically all night...:=)

[AquarianBlue]

It is pretty damn hard to even think about being intimate with another person when your soul is screaming No..propelled by telepathic stops...

[Andrew Gubb]

We're not getting telepathic conversation yet. Mostly tele-empathy. We're connected. But pretty powerfully, it's the strongest I've had yet.

[desire knowledge]

True telepathy is through feeling another persons energy. When you are truly connected w/ another you know what they need before they even ask. I've found this connection w/ 3 individuals...

Not to mention that I understand what was being said about the energy connection and how just feeling the energy of another could bring you to orgasm w/out having to have the physical touch. I've experienced this sensation for years...2003 and did not even know whom I was connecting with, still don't because i've connected this way w/ 3 people. I think it has to do w/ how sensitive the other person is and are they feeling the same thing that you are. I wont settle for anything less then that kind of connection anymore, it's not worth the time.

[AquarianBlue]

True telepathy is through feeling another persons energy. When you are truly connected w/ another you know what they need before they even ask. I've found this connection w/ 3 individuals...

Yes that is exactly it..

Not to mention that I understand what was being said about the energy connection and how just feeling the energy of another could bring you to orgasm w/out having to have the physical touch. I've experienced this sensation for years...2003 and did not even know whom I was connecting with, still don't because i've connected this way w/ 3 people. I think it has to do w/ how sensitive the other person is and are they feeling the same thing that you are. I wont settle for anything less then that kind of connection anymore, it's not worth the time.

Amen to that! How can this be transformed into real life situation ?
Yep that is exactly it!! down to every detail...it is beyond bizarre...Is there any "chance in hell", that this is one sided on only one person noticing it? Now if one would be able to find such a connection with a person living atleast close then 4000 miles from your current location? Just a lucky guess that i happend to connect to people distantliving..

[Twilight]

I agree completely with desire knowledge. with what Andrew Gubb says, with my fiance, I can't believe what kind of connection we have since I have told him. In fact, just now I text my fiance asking him if he has a headache on his right side. he responded that he did...I can feel the headache and he is over 20 miles away from me right now. My mom lives just next door, and she is highly sensitive to pressure changes and I asked her if she had a headache, she did not have even a slight one. So I took some medicine for it and told my fiance to text me in a half hour to see if he still has it.

[desire knowledge]

Amen to that! How can this be transformed into real life situation ?
Yep that is exactly it!! down to every detail...it is beyond bizarre...Is there any "chance in hell", that this is one sided on only one person noticing it? Now if one would be able to find such a connection with a person living atleast close then 4000 miles from your current location? Just a lucky guess that i happend to connect to people distantliving..

I've always wondered that as well. 2 people I was w/ didn't experience the same sensations as I did, the last was more sensitive and tuned into the energy and he could. We thought we were twin flames and everything but we went our separate ways. Calabis decided to walk a different path then I did. Yet the connection between us was extremely intense and neither could deny that it was there. I've tended to find though that as you connect within yourself w/ this energy and form a connection you draw to you the person or at least someone whose vibration is equal to yours allowing for the spiritual connection to manifest within the physical. It is possible to be with someone that is your equal you just have to do quite a bit of inner work before you can physically be with this person.