" wrote:Flame, I think that you know I love you and because of that I really need to point out your words to you.
You thought she was the prettiest when you were together but now...not so much..
And you were "willing" to marry her...
Those 2 statements stopped me when I was reading them...I'm just saying...maybe this wasn't the girl for you and you were trying hard to make her be the girl for you.
When you are so in love with someone that you truly want to spend the REST OF YOUR NATURAL LIFE with her...there is no one more beautiful...even if she is not so cute...lol your eyes cannot see it...
And you are not willing to marry her...you love her so much that you breathe her...you inhale her every movement....you can't wait to spend the rest of each and every day with her.
don't dismiss this totally even if it makes you angry...I believe there is truth in it...love you Flame
Does make me a little angry...but I don't look at it the same way as you. I find it hard to believe in a woman portrayed in that fantasy of words in which you described her to be. I wanted to marry her, we spoke of it, she told me yes many times over; I'm not saying she's ugly cause we aren't together, you'd stand in her in front of me and I'll tell you everything I love about her, but if I need to move on she cannot be on that pedestal. I've knocked her off her pegs, for my own sake.