Should I stay with someone who thinks I'm crazy for what I am, and can't accept because it can't be explained by science?
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Should I stay with someone who thinks I'm crazy for what I am, and can't accept because it can't be explained by science?
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why would you not want to stay with them ?
its just not their gig
i know very few, in fact none of my friends are into this and all think i,m nuts,lol but in a good way
do they love you ?
do you love them ?
remember when yoiu try to justify something to someone, you give them reason to doubth that you fully believe in what your doing
in time they will just pass it by and say
oh ya thats their gig and i,m fine with it now as they are committed to it
I can tell he's not happy with me, it's in his eyes...
tell him to close his eyes and give him a kiss !!!
i rememeber years ago when i found all this out i an and sang and shouted it from a height
but no one cared as they just did not connect
then i simply found out that ,its not ment for everybody just like football is not for everybody
every one to their own
are you into everything he,s into ?
won't help!... you may try but i doubt it will change anything... if only for a short while...Originally Posted by sean mac aoide
from my experience: at the start of relationship i could value, i tell my partner to not to try to change me - [read my signature]... after some time they get angrier and angrier that despite of their struggle i haven't changed a bit... after some more time we part... maybe it's just me being unlucky enough to not to meet THAT ONE still... maybe women just are like that - trying to do impossible even if pre-warned...
i am who i am and i do what i do!
peace...
We were until I started awakening. I can't stand WOW anymore, and I wanna be outside all the time.
was the relationship okay before you became awakened ?
yes it was
in your opinion what exactly happened that changed it from been okay to now you been unsure about it ?
only you can answer your question. My man is as grounded as I am etheral, it's good alchemy for us...we both respect and accept who the other is as a person. He doesn't necessarily "get it" but he loves me for who and what I am.
~a whisper~
I think he thinks I'm playing make belief
maybe you are
is it not all make belief ? lol
its not him you have to convince but yourself, dont take that up the wrong way i mean it with a good heart.
the moe you try to justify something it gives reason to believe you dont fully belief in it yourself.
if your white and i say to you, that you are yellow in colour, you would not feel the need to try and convince me that you are indeed white.
now if you said that
look at me i,m white, this would make me think that you are not so sure and would give me rreason to play on this.
in my opinion next time he says something to discredit your belief, simply say
nothing or try to defend you belief
in time he will come around, he might never get it but he will come around
I know that I'm not making it up, I've gotten very happy with who and what I am. I guess that's all that matters
exactly,
like anything when change comes. people get nervous and just want things to stay the same
in this case you have changed and he is simply afraid that he might lose you so he acts childesh
reassusre him that you are ok and like he is there for you, you will be there for him
The paradox is the more you defend it, the more he will disbelieve you...just be you with quiet assurance and let him see you as you are...let it be an natural, organic journey without heated debate. That will bring more peace to you and curiosity to him.
~a whisper~
Abigail (01-23-2012), sean mac aoide (01-23-2012)
by the way, i rrarely get any grief any more as i stopped justifing it
pebble (01-23-2012)
i agree, just be yourself, but dont push your opinions on him, maybe hell embrace it eventually
dolphin of the water,
in rythmic breathing I flow with life,
in union my mind, body, and spirit
at peace 2 worlds I encounter,
you remind me of the joy in play
"we will work together to help everyone see,for they are blind and do not know it."
"you must feel to see."
talking to myself: the human world is so exiting and pitiful at the same time,so many primitves out there,yet so many evolved ppl...
I think there is a difference between someone accepting who you are, or agreeing on everything you think.
For me there is anyway.
The one I love and live with doesn't have to agree on everything i believe in,
as long as he accepts that I do, and loves me.
For instance, my man will occasionally frown if i come up with my latest theory on how life works according to me,
he is very down to earth and wont just accept my 'floaty-on-clouds-happy-go-merry-energy-cartwheel' as a given thing he believes in.
However he is open to hearing about it (as long as i don't ramble on and on and try to convince him its the absolute truth),
and he accepts that is how I am, and loves me for it.
This results in him pulling me back to earth and grounding me from time to time, which i need,
but I always feel I can tell him what i believe, and he wont judge me.
There is a difference in wanting your man to believe whatever you believe in, or accepting that he doesn't, but still feeling free to vent at him from time to time,
without him calling the local nut-farm to get you on meds each time :P
"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort.
'A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes'
breshine (01-23-2012)
i would go to alot of concerts as i love to get lost in music
if i went to more than two in a year i would get
oh my god not another concert
then i would try to explain that i really love them and they make me feel so good and i dont drink or smoke ect.
every time i bought a ticket i used to get shit over it
then one day i just said, this is who i am
now if they give me shit over a gig i say
yea, their playing in America and i,m thinking of going as well if i enjoy the Irish gig
that fairly shuts them up, lol
My boyfriend is open to spiritual possibilities. He's really into UFO's and crazy stuff, but he's not into being as spiritual as I am. He understands the concept of indigo, and even said he could be one, and he'd be into meditation if he didn't have a deviated septum (It makes him cough and hork loogies, and all that nasty stuff) (I know he's an indigo though. I don't want to push him into believing anything though. So I patiently wait)
Anyways, despite being pretty much opposite, we still work! I basically deal with his stuff, and he deals with mine.
Do you feel comfortable talking about this stuff with him?
Perhaps if the bad outweighs the good, then should you still be with him?
I hope everything works out, my dear~!
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