i have this message etched on my screen when i log in ~ and for some reason it bothers me.
Hello anandafairy it appears that you have not posted on our forums in several weeks, why not take a few moments to ask a question, help provide a solution or just engage in a conversation with another member in any one of our forums?
i'm not one to be told i have to participate actively in sites i choose to sign up for. i enjoy being here, but if i don't have the right to just read posts and not reply or post threads then where is the line between my freedom and what's 'expected' of me? maybe i'm going through something, and am not in a position to offer anything. i'd rather delete my profile than conform to the 'rules'. but i don't really want to to that, i'd rather just be left to my own free will
funny, i thought indigos were understood here. i feel bad having to explain myself.. i mean i guess i feel bad because i feel like a bitch now, and before i was just happy to be here. if the message wasn't computer generated, but rather from a concerned individual asking me where i've been and how i'm doing, well now, that would be a completely different story
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