Searchingformyself wrote:But he was the kind of guy who would say things like that. he taught me so much about life and how to get through it. he was different from the rest. how does that kind of guy just stop talking? how can the guy like that do something so not like him?
like I said hon - it is HIM who has a problem.
What exactly that problem is is what is bugging you I think.
If it IS something to do with the way that he views you - then it is STILL his problem (and in spite of how marvelous he was, no one is perfect). Of course it could be something that has nothing at all to do with you.
It could be something as simple as his computer breaking down or it could be something more serious, like a family member getting sick and not having the time for other people right now.
It's hard to guess untill you hear from him one way or another. And if you DON'T hear from him, just accept that it was time for it to end and that the universe is making room in your life for something new, possibly something better.