Being Indigo & Family

[shareunity]

All I can say is life is a beech.
Some ppl will never change.
Im over this family.

[Grounded Gifts]

Good luck, shareunity
I'll say some Benevolent Prayers for your family and for the relationships to improve. Maybe you could start to request some Most Benevolent Outcomes for the situation.
One thing I observe: you have not fallen into the "trap" of basing your self-esteem on what the abusive people tell you about yourself.
You have formed your own self-esteem, even though the people whose job it is to teach you to do this, have not taught you.

IMHO You are stronger than you know

Another thing: you deserve better I hope you will find people in your life who will give you the acceptance and positive energy you deserve

shareunity is a great username. I believe the Universe will bring you shared unity -- but you might have to look outside of the family to find it

[iamme]

Sean, Do what FEELS right in your gut no matter what anyone tells you. If it doesn't feel right to cut them out of your life than don't but be prepared for a very tough and painful learning period while you figure out how to handle each individual and situation. I have been through and am going through a similar situation with my family and I couldn't cut them out of my life because it didn't feel right to me although that was the advice I was given nonetheless. Feel free to PM me if you would like to hear my experiences as I cannot claim to have answers...


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Grounded is right...you are strong and deserve the best.

[shareunity]

Thnx grounded gifted. Xoxooxox

Ima join peace corp once things are better..and get more hours for volunteering!!!! ))


I appreciate it u girls and guys !!!

[Satori]

No. Not alarmist at all. Sorry, but unless you have a tertiary qualification in these matters, and direct experience working in the sector, or working as a volunteer, intervening in abuse situations and assisting survivors at the request of the survivors......or you've direct experience of abuse and you have worked through your own recovery......

All of the above.

But at this point, it's pretty clear to me that we'll just have to agree to disagree.

[Stanley19802]

Hello shareunity,

I am a walk-in Indigo. I walked in on November 20th 1990 at around 2:30pm. I learned who I was about 4 years ago. But I always knew I was different. The family of the body I took over when I walk-ed in is severely negitive too. Abusive as well. It made it difficult to stay on the path growing up, but it is possible. What I found helpful is a form of meditation called called "clearing". It helps release the bad feelings, and if your empathic and can feel the emotions of others, this helps release those feelings if you feel the need to. Anyway, here's those directions: http://picsanddocuments.homestead.com/Meditation.html Hope that helps.

-Stanley

[silvercharm]

how does a person who found out that she is an indigo adjust to a family that's emotionally and mentally neg?
how does a person who has so much on there plate to take care of the sick since no one is but to endure so much emotional and mental energy?

so it's like this` i found out a few mths. that i was indigo/lw.
i knew from the bottle of my heart.....truly.....even in my dreams...
the people that i met...the life that i have right now and thinking back..
how things don't fit at all.....

but in my family its very heavy neg energy and it goes in a circle. just like some people im sure....know this awful feeling...

and i just want it to STOP. i try to turn the other cheek. and go out and get some air.
and i try not to get myself back into doing drugs. im actually trying to detox and cleanse my body
and live my life as peaceful as i can........meditating here and there but there is so much neg energy
bottled up for myself........im trying to let go.....but i just can't when they are the cause...
everyday i wake up to hear something different to feel something different...but it just piles n piles..
stick and stones will break ur bones but words do hurt. i knew i didn't fit in this family at all...

is there any tips` in order for me to block this energy off so my true aura will shine and i can be at peace with myself.
i wish i can just put my family on mute.....


-shareunity

I remember when i was very young, i told my mom that i can see the future through my dreams.
Once, i told her about my dream, she laughed at me...
but then 2 weeks later my dream came true, but she still didn't believe me, she said that was only coincidence.
After that, i've never told my family about weird things in my life.
I found it easier to my family if i behave like the other normal children.

I live alone now, so that no one can affected me--negatively or positively.
The negativity is all coming from my self. hahahaha...
How to deal with my own negativity? Just take a deep breath and read something funny.

[silvercrow]

one other idea i've found for myself and others that I have helped - is to move the buttons!. You know the buttons that family seem to know just where to push to get you going?? Well, "Move" the buttons!! Put them in a different place, and if they find them again, move them again. Keep doing this until you are able to work through the issues that get you going.

Has worked for me and many others.

thanks

[Sdboutlaw]

Get a life plan, move away, and never forget what you've learned along the way.

Been gone for 15 years, am better for it.