I was married 9 years, our papers were finalized on the day of our 9 year anniversary, September ninth !
What a bunch of shit......................
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I did not see it coming either; was bed ridden with pain at the time and rather useless, and prior to that not the greatest catch to begin with.!
She left and I began to crumble, I stayed in the house we had lived in for a couple years with our stuff(and still am 1.5 years later), she went to stay else where and I new what i had to do, and that was to expose myself to as many memories laying around as possible. Nothing but as much tough love as I could give myself going through pictures and favorite songs, presents and blah blah...
Then one day while churning around in bed, the stupid Done Henely song "Heart Of The Matter" popped into my head, and the line " forgiveness even if you dont love me any more" my selfish cravings for her to be there were shattered and presented to myself as just that, selfish.
I love her, and know that she wants to be happy and has the chance to be herself to the fullest extent - personally to be yourself is the meaning of my life,and so who am I to deny that for her, or myself??