i heard it is a common triat .......
i thought of myself being silly wanting to find someone with my same considerations ... living in eco houses meditating and exploring spirituality etc
but now knowing about indigo i see it isn't much of a big deal and that it is normal for me ...
worst having this alienating feeling....
anyone from south america and the isles in here ?
Hi there, I think I understand how you feel. I'm with someone who is not an Indigo, and it is still such an alienating feeling. We barely relate. I have read that Indigos, Lightworkers, etc. tend to want to focus on spreading love to everyone, and not just a single person... so that may be where the wanting to be alone comes in. "Living in eco houses, meditating", that sounds great. When I finally do get a house, I'm going to make one room a "library", where there will be books, lots of space and no electronics allowed.
Definitely take up a hobbie that can keep you socially active. That helps a lot to get to know other people before making the move on them.
Going to the gym helped me a lot. Kept me happy and motivated to move on with my life. Listen to music with an upbeat tempo also can help you change your mood. Turn to friends when your feeling down and family when your feeling lonely.
i also had in mind that indigo people together in a relationship would be the most exhilarating and best feeling the two could could have (sorry i get entangled in words) yes i have had interior shame thinking of bigamy (two women) not a sexual based relationship but being three in a group things are different , and concerning spreading love to everyone i consider myself humanist , wanting to make the hobos build houses for theselves help the homeless and those in bad postures , m y joy would be seeing them in a better posture and working not for money but for the society they live in to be stable and entertained
also i see that we like large empty rooms
eco domes
here here
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I actually don't know ANY indigos that truly WANT to be alone. Many have resigned themselves to being alone because no suitable partner exists. Sure we want to spread the love. Sure, many of us choose polyamory. But many of us really just want a true partner that we can share with. Our abilities can only be enhanced by the love we feel and share. I'm not saying AT ALL that we NEED to be with anyone. There's so much more to this. As far as eco houses etc, Indigo or not, there's a huge population seeking this type of lifestyle.
Originally Posted by thepixelgarden
I agree with Sentienne. Just wanted to add something, Polyamory is not a life style choice, its not choosing to be with multiple partners its much deeper seated than that and its something I am struggling with myself right now. It does not make you strange or anything just another way of being besides being "normal"
i have imagined how it would be being three in a relationship .. two women
doesnt seem that bad , a small group of three i imagine going to the water parks etc
in that thought (might seem crazy) the two women would have to be lesbian to some extent which would enable a real triangular love
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most poly-amorous relationships are not a true triangle from my experience. Its complicated but so are relationships and we are diverging from the topic at hand here now, so back to topic.
Indigos in relationship together IS amazing. whether they're friends or lovers. Honestly, I think we reach a point where we can't be with anyone BUT a kindred spirit.. trying anything else seems/is extremely frustrating.. and yes, In my opinion once you've been in relationship with someone like yourself, it's virtually impossible to go back to "normal".
I can imagine that if you were in relationship with multiple kindred spirits (polyamorous or otherwise) that it has the potential to be amazing. I haven't fully formulated my thoughts on polyamory and I'm currently struggling with that a bit myself - how I feel about it.. Honestly, I struggle enough with finding kindred spirits - period, let alone trying to be in relationship with one. More than one would be ultimately intense. <3
When I read up on Indigos, I was absolutely relieved to find out that we tend to struggle in relationships. I am only 17 and have been in way too many relationships, and been in love three times (granted, when I discovered my sexuality, I realized I'm also just not made for being with men, but that's a different story). I completely understand now why I am so compelled to love everyone, but also find someone special I can love with everything in me and not be judged. I now realize that, if I ever do find "the one," she will have to be Indigo (or maybe Crystal). I now realize that only Indigos can truly understand my immense love.
As for polyamory, do not be afraid! You are not alone! Embrace it! Love comes in all forms, and none are to be looked down upon. (:
Hmmmm...I've never heard that Indigos seem to do better single. I am very, very single by choice, and people can't seem to understand my desire to NOT be in a relationship. Very interesting!
Being single by choice is an amazing option! The status quo expects us all to be happily involved with families.. that often doesn't work out for people that simply aren't "standard". Of course there are the exceptions to that - there are gifted individuals that couple easily and stay coupled... great for them.
I totally agree! The only bad thing is that friends/family/people can't seem to understand the desire to not be in a relationship. It's kind of frustrating.
I thought I was the only one thinking like that ! ahah
I was always in a mentor type relationship
that had the obvious ending. The best relationship
I've found is one where you reality is yours, and their
reality is theirs and you share a reality with like goals.
I've enjoyed living alone for the last 12 years.
My schedule is mine. I have friends to interact
with dinner and a lecture or movie. In this town
there are enough people that have some psi-abilities.
There are lots of people of all ages that prefer
to be single, 1/4 of the population in the USA
prefer to be single . . . no big deal.
Be in harmony,
be in beauty.
roger
Last edited by Psychic Child; 08-12-2012 at 02:38 AM.
That which is below corresponds to that which is above . . .
That which is above corresponds to that which is below . . .
To accomplish the miracle of one thing.
The Emerald Tablet of Hermes Trismegist, [Dennis W. Hauk translation]
I have been single since birth haha. I am 22 now. It's getting old, in my opinion ;p
I can empathize with all stances at this point.. I've been in a relationship (unhappily), somewhat happily, single unhappily, single happily. Since I never intend to be in any of the first 3 again, I'll wait and see what comes about. No expectations. I'd much rather be involved in ANYTHING (single or relationship) on agreeable terms - on MY terms than on anybody else's... <3
SurrogateSpark (08-12-2012)
Wan- I can't speak to the primary topic right now, since I'm sooo frustrated and sick of being alone!!!
BUT, the secondary topic; have you looked into Cob construction????? LOVE IT! I LOVE THE COB!
http://www.cobcottage.com/
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It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society.
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