i'd still know blessings. i for one don't need the crap. some say we're here to learn but all we are learning, imo, is how to navigate thru crap. i'm here to change things, not to learn about crap. <--(rant
where i'm from we had no crap ever and did just fine enjoying each other and having fun.
yes, put me on the suffer list but it gets less and less as i acquire crap-handling tools and practice them..