Indigo parents of Crystal children?

[RainbowRima]

Hello,


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I know here is for the parents but I have chosen this place especially to write about what I am asking my-self since you are the witness of many crystal babies.Hope it is ok to spare 1 post here for my question;
I am not much into labels,yes,I have been told I was ''indigo''by healers,psychics many times,and from my teachers I trust.I saw my aura at age 12 the first layer,it was deep indigo without a doubt and at tht moment I did not know what was indigo.
The question is,one of the aura readers I have encountered told me I was between an indigo and a crystal.I would like to tell you about my childhood so if you can see better where I fit;(or maybe I am even not indigo lol!)

I was born with a huge head truly,I was a very quiet child and always played on my own and in nature.I talked early and walked early,I remember seeing stuff inside our house like spirits,ages 4 or near these ages (I remember my life beginning from age 1) I used to think my mother could read my thoughts.lol
Family honored my love for animals and I had many animal friends,I was putting them in sleep by touching somehow and this came to be known as a funny ability of me lol.

I had never a single problem in school except boredom,always top grades from the beginning.I have never felt violence inside of me as a child,or the need to defend my-self.I always had my friends older thn me.From age 4,I could feel what others,and friends could feel and think if they were around me,and also what they dont think but have inside their hearts.Internal lie detector ,this surely I had too, yes.

I always remember my-self floating in some kind of liquid love where there is truly no time,except where I began to be traumatised,father being violent for no reason on me etc.
Once,at a point where I was dying because of nutrition deficiency (dieting and teen-age problems I have carried into my early 20) an indigo ,very strong channel,told me,''You will speak many things and in front of many people but now,let me help you help your-self''
This was the point where I needed to see I needed help myself,and I did,more or less.

what do you think as parents?I was such an easy baby to deal with ,are indigos this way?

[beautifulmind]

I don't have any resources Ven, but I loved all that you shared about her. I love too that you are so in tuned with her and her amazing developement. I have twins and one of my daughters is similar to how you describe your daughter. I have wondered if she was a starseed as I am. My other daughter has Indigo traits. But I haven't had much chance to explore their differing traits as we are always just trying to get through the day...

I would love to hear more about your daughter and what you discover about her. It always warms my heart to see these beautiful children coming into the world. they bring with them so much hope.

[RainbowRima]

no one replies me,why,why cant I has cheezburger..

[crue_boo]

Hello,

I know here is for the parents but I have chosen this place especially to write about what I am asking my-self since you are the witness of many crystal babies.Hope it is ok to spare 1 post here for my question;
I am not much into labels,yes,I have been told I was ''indigo''by healers,psychics many times,and from my teachers I trust.I saw my aura at age 12 the first layer,it was deep indigo without a doubt and at tht moment I did not know what was indigo.
The question is,one of the aura readers I have encountered told me I was between an indigo and a crystal.I would like to tell you about my childhood so if you can see better where I fit;(or maybe I am even not indigo lol!)

I was born with a huge head truly,I was a very quiet child and always played on my own and in nature.I talked early and walked early,I remember seeing stuff inside our house like spirits,ages 4 or near these ages (I remember my life beginning from age 1) I used to think my mother could read my thoughts.lol
Family honored my love for animals and I had many animal friends,I was putting them in sleep by touching somehow and this came to be known as a funny ability of me lol.

I had never a single problem in school except boredom,always top grades from the beginning.I have never felt violence inside of me as a child,or the need to defend my-self.I always had my friends older thn me.From age 4,I could feel what others,and friends could feel and think if they were around me,and also what they dont think but have inside their hearts.Internal lie detector ,this surely I had too, yes.

I always remember my-self floating in some kind of liquid love where there is truly no time,except where I began to be traumatised,father being violent for no reason on me etc.
Once,at a point where I was dying because of nutrition deficiency (dieting and teen-age problems I have carried into my early 20) an indigo ,very strong channel,told me,''You will speak many things and in front of many people but now,let me help you help your-self''
This was the point where I needed to see I needed help myself,and I did,more or less.

what do you think as parents?I was such an easy baby to deal with ,are indigos this way?

i am not at all lying or over exaggerating... but I am too the exact same. And these things you listed are some of my most recognizable traits. I have also been told that I am both crystal and indigo; this happens because all people have different traits of different "labels" in them, it just so happens to be that you are the same amount of both. You are maybe a Sagittarius? or a Gemini..or maybe its Pisces i'm thinking of...but you are like a chameleon and take a personal part of a lot of everything. A big thing I can relate to: Sagittarius' also have great connections with animals; once i was in a car full of people smoking a joint, and they were all swatting at this moth, and my heart hurt as i watched it struggle. All i had to do was put my hand up to it and it instantly landed on me, one hand out of 4 other flailing hands..and i let it fly out the window. Another "unbondable" creature i bond with is normal house flies...or garbage pickers... once, in my boyfriend's garage..there was a swarm of half dozen flies buzzing around the garbage and it was annoying because i had a headache...all i had to say was "flies, stop" and they all landed. It wasn't a coincidence.

[crue_boo]

btw, I am now a parent (just found out XD) ...but am young enough to be a crystal/indigo... im 17. so I can come from both views

[Halcyone]

I have been blessed with and Indigo and a Crystal. Unbelievable beings! They've taught me so much about myself (as an Indigo) and helped me to heal. My Crystal has telepathic abilities and is teaching me about that...I never had the opportunity to experience it before! They are so wonderful!

[bluewaterdance]

I am not sure I am answering your question - this is a bit of a hunch. But I think you are asking parent/child issues at different stages. I think an indigo/crystal can be an easy child. They are sensitive to others, prosocial, curious and delightful. But an indigo/crystal adult is a threat to a parent who doesn't view the world that way. And somewhere between child and adult in the teen years the parent starts to feel that threat - just about at the time that the teen child is just feeling its own power and is vulnerable. Sometimes that is the basis of an eating disorder - a way to resolve the parent-child conflict inside oneself.

[Belial]

Is there a thread on this, or other resources anyone knows? Or other Indigo parents of Crystal children here?

My fiencee and I are both indigos. Our daughter is ten months old and a rather extraordinary individual. We learned about crystal children after going to a newage-type shop to ask for Indigo stuff (thinking she was one) and they recognized her for what she is. She's amazingly happy and zen. She'll cry when she can't see her mommy or other familiar caretakers but otherwise, she's pretty much always happy. She has these strking, huge blue eyes. She can't speak yet, but she SINGS. There's a distinct difference between her baby-babbling and singing. The other day we heard her perform for us an entire song made up on the spot, complete with chorus repetitions, patterns in wordless metre and tune, and self-accompaniment on block-banging-on-plastic-thing. I also have seen her pull herself up to the piano and bang randomly on the keys and "sing" along with it. She also knows a little sign language -- we've seen her reliably use "mother" and "milk" correctly. I don't know what kids her age are usually like, but she will flawlessly, without being told or shown how, match shapes and colors with her put-object-in-hole toys.

We also think she learned to crawl by playing with the dogs, because she does mimic their barking, and she has never crawled on her knees except to move just a few inches. Point A to point B locomotion has always been hands and feet, not knees. Like Mogli.

She also seems to be sensitive to chemicals in foods. She spit up any formula we gave her except the all-natural ones, and now that she can take fingerfoods, she LOVES fresh fruits and stuff we get from the vegan place and organic cereals and breads, but she won't eat junkfood.

So yeah.... babbling aside... do any other indigos have experience raising a crystal child, or know where to find resources about it?

You are parents raising a child. It does not matter if you are indigo or not, or if your child is crystal or not. You should not change the way you raise your child based on a label. Just raise your child like you would raise any child.
That's my opinion, anyway.

[Halcyone]

Is there a thread on this, or other resources anyone knows? Or other Indigo parents of Crystal children here?

My fiencee and I are both indigos. Our daughter is ten months old and a rather extraordinary individual. We learned about crystal children after going to a newage-type shop to ask for Indigo stuff (thinking she was one) and they recognized her for what she is. She's amazingly happy and zen. She'll cry when she can't see her mommy or other familiar caretakers but otherwise, she's pretty much always happy. She has these strking, huge blue eyes. She can't speak yet, but she SINGS. There's a distinct difference between her baby-babbling and singing. The other day we heard her perform for us an entire song made up on the spot, complete with chorus repetitions, patterns in wordless metre and tune, and self-accompaniment on block-banging-on-plastic-thing. I also have seen her pull herself up to the piano and bang randomly on the keys and "sing" along with it. She also knows a little sign language -- we've seen her reliably use "mother" and "milk" correctly. I don't know what kids her age are usually like, but she will flawlessly, without being told or shown how, match shapes and colors with her put-object-in-hole toys.

We also think she learned to crawl by playing with the dogs, because she does mimic their barking, and she has never crawled on her knees except to move just a few inches. Point A to point B locomotion has always been hands and feet, not knees. Like Mogli.

She also seems to be sensitive to chemicals in foods. She spit up any formula we gave her except the all-natural ones, and now that she can take fingerfoods, she LOVES fresh fruits and stuff we get from the vegan place and organic cereals and breads, but she won't eat junkfood.

So yeah.... babbling aside... do any other indigos have experience raising a crystal child, or know where to find resources about it?

Your child doesn't sound any different from mine. They also were very smart kids when they were little...(and continue to be) They both knew sign language and always had big soul-full eyes.

I think babies form what they like to eat from what mom ate when she was pregnant and later in breast milk. I ate a lot of fresh fruits and veggies with one child and I now send him to school with salads. With the other one, I ate heavier foods including moose and deer meat as well as greens...consequently he loves that sort of food. I feed them as much a minimally processed diet as possible because I am sensitive to additives. Since I feed my family this way, any dietary disturbances really bother them.

As it turns out, we are all actually celiac and I have yet to determine if they also have my dairy intolerance too. Any deviance from our clean diet throws their behavior off if it doesn't make them violently ill.

As they have grown older, I've noticed that at around 3 they have both demonstrated a connection to the universe...the spirit world and telepathic abilities. This is where the question of raising them like other children arises...it's up to you to foster those abilities or they will loose them as they grow older. Just like you would encourage any child to foster talents, it's up to a parent to decide to foster talents not yet completely accepted by society while at the same time teaching the child to protect themselves from ridicule and the potential for psychological damage.

School has also proven to be a challenge. My first grader is still so much in his mind and dreams and has no interest in conforming to the institutional requirements. It's a tricky balance.

Good luck to you.

[ThetaAbundance]

I think my son is also a crystal baby, and most of the characteristics you mentioned I've noticed on my child also. He's almost 2 years old now, and has had since he was born a very peaceful behavior. He barely cried when he was smaller, and sometimes I think he feels the mood of the people around him. The crowded places affects him, but at the same time people tend to be "atracted" to him. He prefers fruit and vegetables above other kind of food, ... and well,..there are a lot of charcteristics that we will dicover as they grow up...but I have found too little information about crystal children, only a few characteristics, but no believable way of helping them to develop......
I hope someone knows a little bit more about this....greetings...

My youngest, who is now 17-months, started early on drawing people to her. She rarely cries, but is demanding now (Leo). From the time she could sit up and we would go in public she would always find a way to get a persons attention and usually they were the saddest in the crowd or angry. She would engage them until they smiled. she didn't always smile, but she was doing something! We had a woman stop in her car as she passed by Hannah and she backed up, rolled down her window, and said, "That child is very special". She just drove off.

These children have healing capabilities beyond what I ever imagined. I'm so honored she wanted me as her mother. I'll never forget the first time before I became pregnant that she came through someone to tell me to LET HER COME IN. Yes, she yelled with her energy and said she was not waiting any more. LOL

[crue_boo]

This topic makes me so excited to spend out-of-belly time with my baby. I want to say that i feel his love, his comfort, his thoughts that don't exactly consist of words...but I could just be imagining all of this. It seems that he KNOWS when he is being spoken about or thought about (deeply) because he will kick or shift positions right on cue.
When I was a small child, I was considered the "psychic" one of the 3; as a night owl due to my birth time of 3:06am....I would apparently cry every single night when my mom THOUGHT about going to bed, and I didn't have to be in the same room. Apparently this went on from birth until around 5 or so.. I'm assuming that I realized myself at that time of life and thought that I best hide it in case someone wanted to take it away. I have a STRONG feeling that my fiance is telepathic and all that jazz, but he denies it...with this ..evil smile that is almost cute. He knows I can read his mind, maybe he doesn't want me to know that he reads mine haha. Well... I am just typing stuff.. With one parent that has a gift and another that most likely has a gift...is it possible for the child to turn out...well... "normal"? I can already feel that my child is special, but I was just wondering what your thoughts were

[ThetaAbundance]

This topic makes me so excited to spend out-of-belly time with my baby. I want to say that i feel his love, his comfort, his thoughts that don't exactly consist of words...but I could just be imagining all of this. It seems that he KNOWS when he is being spoken about or thought about (deeply) because he will kick or shift positions right on cue.
When I was a small child, I was considered the "psychic" one of the 3; as a night owl due to my birth time of 3:06am....I would apparently cry every single night when my mom THOUGHT about going to bed, and I didn't have to be in the same room. Apparently this went on from birth until around 5 or so.. I'm assuming that I realized myself at that time of life and thought that I best hide it in case someone wanted to take it away. I have a STRONG feeling that my fiance is telepathic and all that jazz, but he denies it...with this ..evil smile that is almost cute. He knows I can read his mind, maybe he doesn't want me to know that he reads mine haha. Well... I am just typing stuff.. With one parent that has a gift and another that most likely has a gift...is it possible for the child to turn out...well... "normal"? I can already feel that my child is special, but I was just wondering what your thoughts were

Congrats on your beautiful baby to be... It is an exciting time and my last one was hard emotionally due to circumstances, but I do remember what you speak of. They are connected to us and feel what we feel, know what we think, and hear us.

There is no doubt your child will be gifted as you..

As for turn out normal? What do you mean? What is normal to you? So far all of my children surpassed what I imagined. They chose us to be their mom and I am grateful every day!

When is your due date?

[crue_boo]

Congrats on your beautiful baby to be... It is an exciting time and my last one was hard emotionally due to circumstances, but I do remember what you speak of. They are connected to us and feel what we feel, know what we think, and hear us.

There is no doubt your child will be gifted as you..

As for turn out normal? What do you mean? What is normal to you? So far all of my children surpassed what I imagined. They chose us to be their mom and I am grateful every day!

When is your due date?

MY definition of normal is being yourself , but what i meant by normal with these things attatched (" ") i meant societies view of normal. The norm. I'm so excited to get to experience my gifts and share them with my baby...I don't really know anyone like this personally exept for maybe my fiance. I have a gut feeling he is telepathic and clairvoyant and stuff but it could just be that i WANT it so bad i make it seem as so. I'm due April 18th, but I have a funny feeling that the doctors over estimated the date. I have an early menopause type thing so they couldn't tell by my flow, and just guessed by the size.

[Ravenjourney]

I feel so comforted by reading the entries on this thread. I am the mother of a 3-year-old Crystal child. He came here strangely...I am also the mother of a 28-year old son and a 26-year-olod daughter. When this third child came, I was truly so dumbfounded that I told his Indigo father that I was sure that he and the child obtained my agreement to this new contract in the spirit while I was asleep. I even felt crazy...like I had been abducted and inpregnated. Something inside me knew that this was a change of planned events.

I cannot even recount the "odd" things that surrounded his birth and his strange gifts. My husband (an avid photographer) took a picture of me before I even knew I was pregnant. The picture was of a stream of lights that resembled DNA strands. I was nowhere to be seen. Then he took a pic of the sofa after I had gotten up...the picture was clear and "normal". he took more pictures of me that night, all had weird lights in them. later, I found ou that I was pregnant. I was literally speechless for the first four months, and still in disbelief after the 2nd year.

I was born in 1960, his father was born in 1956. Both older Indigos.

Our little one has a photographic memory, and can repeat sentences from movies or conversations VERBATIM...months after the fact, and uses the figures of speech properly. He states his thoughts and wishes very clearly. When his father told him that he had reasons for asking our little boy to do things, our son looked him dead in the eye and stated "my reasons are bigger than your reasons". He recently asked me when his father and I will die. I said I did not know. He then asked very evenly, "if you and daddy die, who will be my parents?" He only eats a little chicken, maybe fish on occasion, resists any meat, particularly ground beef, and will not eat any vegetable, only a few types of fruits and breads. He does not get sick. He has intimidated his pre-school teacher with his stare to extent that I took him out and will plan to homeschool instead. He has a furious temper and will throw an object with professional focus and accuracy (he did this from about a year old, hitting an object from about 5 or six feet away with precision), but his temper is only to release the energy he feels, once released, he is kind, compassionate, and gentle beyond belief. His older brother is convinced that he can read his mind. I know he knoows my thoughts and my heart. The other day, I was feeling particularly sad, and could feel the warm pain in my heart center....my little one came to me and kissed me on the cheeks, the nose, the eyes, and finished with a caress to my heart.

I have decided to just stay present and follow his lead. I also feel a great need to protect him until he is an adult.

Amazed mom,

Ruth (Raven)

[LindaW]

I really, really enjoy reading this thread. It is nice to know I am not alone in the raising of a special child. My daughter has predicted earthquakes since she was old enough to speak. She has also always told me that she knows Buddha and he's a really cool guy.. hehehe I will also never forget the time she came to me at age 4 to tell me about how her DNA differs from that of others and that she is special. She is very musical, very smart, and we are very much connected on a psychic level. She is constantly finishing the sentences of me and her father, and it is not uncommon for her to answer us before we ask her a question. I have always known she would be special before she was even born, and we also have all sorts of "problems" with cameras when we take pictures with our digital cameras. I cherish the "problematic photos" on every level.

[LindaW]

The other day, I was feeling particularly sad, and could feel the warm pain in my heart center....my little one came to me and kissed me on the cheeks, the nose, the eyes, and finished with a caress to my heart.

I have decided to just stay present and follow his lead. I also feel a great need to protect him until he is an adult.

When my daughter was an infant, she insisted on having her hand over my heart chakra. It didn't matter where or when, but if she was in my arms, her hand was in that spot. Alot of me thinks she was helping me heal so I could be the best mom I can be for her (I had a very troubled and traumatic childhood). I also feel a great need to protect my daughter until she is adult. We have found a wonderful Waldorf charter school (there is no religion involved in this one) that is music and art inspired. Nurturing the child in the ways the child is ready to accept is so much better than forcing a strict diet of math and reading and tests and worksheets to them.

[Ravenjourney]

Thank you, Linda, for the confirmation. Your post has echoed the message of Waldorf school to me now again. It has been coming to me from all different places. We have a wonderful Waldorf school here. I will now check into it. Thanks for sharing. I was filled with emotion after reading your post. We really have a mission in raising these new children, don't we?

Ruth

[Wyvernia]

I have not long found out that I am indigo, I also have strong suspicions about my husband too (not that he would admit to it) we have two children together.
my 3 year old is AMAZING. he knows lots of sign language, he can count to twenty five, learnt his alphabet at a very young age, has just started spelling (he can spell his name, forwards and backwards lol) he is learning how to read, he recognises lots of words. one of his favourite things is playing with letters and arranging them together. He is so bright and happy and lovely, everyone he meets falls in love with him, even ppl who really dont like small children! he has such a presence when he's in the room. everyone comments on his big blue eyes! he is telapathic too, he tells me things like thers a car about to come round the corner, not just the colour but the make of car too! when he was really little id put him up for a nap and was downstairs doing some housework, had the tigger song going thru my head lol. went upstairs to check on him and he's sat there playing with a tigger toy. sometimes i am thinking something and he will look at me and say it, or i will be about to ask him a question and he'll reply before I've even said anything. He had a bad dream once and came running into the room (i was awake breastfeeding my little girl) and at the exact same time my husband woke up, he'd had exactly the same dream a man at the window. he has a lot of bad dreams actually, poor kid.
He doesnt like big crowds of ppl and really hates loud noises. he communicates with my baby daughter, tells me when she's woke from her nap, if she's cold etc. She also communicates with me, shes so direct in telling me what she wants or needs, she's only 12weeks old but i definatly think she's crystal too. the other day she was having a strop while i was changing her and popped the lightbulb in the room! I could list so many things but i have to go out now, it warms my heart to read all these stories of the next generation, hopefully the world will be a much better place when they all grow up and leave their mark on it!

[LindaW]

That is great to hear I think making sure these qualities are nurtured is so important. My mother always freaked out when my siblings and I exhibited any sort of psychic qualities. It was "weird" and she didn't like it, and that hurdle was hard to get over! My sister is empathic and was always able to see spirit forms, yet she was labeled as a "crybaby" and "silly" for having "imaginary friends". She has only learned to stifle her feelings and no longer speaks about spirits or "friends" she had, which is so sad for not only me (mostly for her) but the rest of the world! It's this kind of stuff that we, as parents, have to be responsible for eliminating. I think one of the main problems with society today is that adults are too caught up in being adults... children and their so-called silliness has no place in today's world. So many adults have lost all sense and memory of what the joy of being a child was like. I will do all I can as a parent to be sure my child never falls into that category as an adult.

[msmir]

I am an Indigo but my husband is not (which does cause a lot of stress between us as it is but we were meant to be together as I am here to teach him things and vice versa). Both of my kids are Crystals. Though my son is more highly sensitive than my daughter is. He has some traits of autism but is very high functioning, and that is because his speech is not in completely (and I know this is common for Crystals) and he is almost 5. My daughter was not a late speaker though. Both cannot handle it if there is darkness around and both are happy when everyone else is happy. My son is extremely psychic as he frequently sees my dog that passed away back in September.