Relationship mayhem!

[dawnabelle]

No longer posting on this site

[MiamiSound]

I think its a global thing right now. Anyone who says they haven't is lieing

[dawnabelle]

I know, but especially in the last month?

[MiamiSound]

June was a CRAZY month for almost everyone i know. Especially me. Break ups and car accidents galore

[Silverhaze]

hmm well sort of... I just realized the true meaning of love... and all it's subcategories.... that in itself opened my eyes to truths about my relationships....

[dawnabelle]

Hey Silverhaze, that sounds massive! I know what you mean though. The grass aint always greener.

If somebody isn't part of your health then they are part of your disease

[Silverhaze]

yes hmm but more or less it was more of an understanding of love... like the love for a friend or the love for a sibling and so forth

and understanding that when you love someone completely it can be confusing because you can love them as a brother or a friend or a lover or a father or a mother or a sister... or just a person... it gets confusing... and I think that is why I never really related to other people's version of love because I couldn't contain it to their deffinition... it seems strange to love someone as a brother and a lover at the same time... but it is possible... it is complete love... strange as it seems...

but what you say is true as well... sometimes it's hard to see when you love someone that they don't love you back... that they treat you horribly... but I figured that one out a year or two ago...

[Hearsekid]

*deliverance banjo theme running thru my head*

[anomoly]

Hey Silverhaze, that sounds massive! I know what you mean though. The grass aint always greener.

If somebody isn't part of your health then they are part of your disease

interesting point of view I agree with it. I can agree with the relationship reconstruction thing also. Me and my wife have been on a decline over the past 6 months or so because she cant controle herself. Im in a forgin country on a military assignment. Recently like a month 2 months ago we agreed to get a divorce; and in the mean time I met my twin flame over the net. Shes not American and not in the country where i am stationed so we cant meet for some time yet but the more we talk the more we realize ourselves in each others eyes. One thing is sure we both have alot to overcome if we decide to make a relationship of this ordeal and i mean A LOT. I guess what Im getting out is that I have positive overall change from this shift in relationship both in myself and in others. So maybe its not such a bad thing i guess just go wit the flow and see where it takes you.

[dawnabelle]

No longer posting on this site

[anomoly]

Thank you believe me your words are also encouraging to me. take care and enjoy life

[Satisfiction]

Thanks Anomoly. You have given me strength and a reminder that life is always changing. There isnt any point in clinging on to old patterns/people for the sake of comfort/habit.
I'm going to try and stop doing that and just go with the flow.

NoTE TO seLF!

Xx

A great lesson to integrate into your life my darling!

June was certainly a month for upheaval and change... I met my twin flame too and wow has it been an amazing month!

[peaceful_dreamer]

Just a thought, but recently, i have been speaking to a great many people who have all )myself including( been suffering from relationship troubles/breakdowns/serious re-assesments etc..

I'd be really interested to know if anybody else has experienced or noticed this?

YES! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and all of a sudden about 2 months ago we started experiencing problems for the first time. We even broke up and then immediately got back together. I wonder why this is happening?

[Soulsearcher29]

Im wondering if it has anything to do with just bringing old issues to the front to be dealt with, it might be a relationship that has run its course, but it sounds more to me like, there are just some things that need to be dealt with instead. Everybody has relationship issues, its confronting those issues and working on them that people fear or sometimes they just dont see them, but it doesnt mean the relationship has run its course if you love somebody, it just shows you everybody is human and everybody has to learn to deal with their problems and work them out.

[Amur]

YES! I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and all of a sudden about 2 months ago we started experiencing problems for the first time. We even broke up and then immediately got back together. I wonder why this is happening?

As I see it, I see it as some idiots who put me inside the collective consciousness to ruin alot of things for many people using me as their bait but then again I'm not sure. The whole system is fucked up from beginning and should be ended I think, which means that the world should end...

[Nora]

Just a thought, but recently, i have been speaking to a great many people who have all )myself including( been suffering from relationship troubles/breakdowns/serious re-assesments etc..

I'd be really interested to know if anybody else has experienced or noticed this?

I also experienced a relationship crisis in June (one that is still unresolved!) My partner thought that things were better than ever, but I felt the need to change the patterns that were upsetting me, to speak the truth about my feelings and about things that I had kept hidden. A regular jealousy/mistrust issue turned into a complete breakup, and then deciding not to breakup, and now uncertainty. I have recently felt the urge to make major changes in my life and weed out the things that are blocking my happiness and spiritual growth.

[Silverhaze]

I also experienced a relationship crisis in June (one that is still unresolved!) My partner thought that things were better than ever, but I felt the need to change the patterns that were upsetting me, to speak the truth about my feelings and about things that I had kept hidden. A regular jealousy/mistrust issue turned into a complete breakup, and then deciding not to breakup, and now uncertainty. I have recently felt the urge to make major changes in my life and weed out the things that are blocking my happiness and spiritual growth.

That is always a good thing to do. I wish you luck

[TheVessel]

Im dating solitude
Shes hot
and easy to commune with

[raztaz12]

I just broke up with my bf of 2.5 years in April... but I've already found someone better and MORE amazing then anyone i've met... of course we're still in that you can do no wrong.

[Silverhaze]

Well you know... quite recently (though I'm sure it's been developing for the past month or so without my notice) a strange love triangle... well more like a love ^ has been forming around me and two of my guy friends...

one use to have a huge crush on me a few years ago that went kind of odd he didn't really know how to deal with it because I didn't respond like any other girl he had ever met so we weren't even friends for a long while
the other I met the same year and have become quiet close over the years

it's 3 years later and we are all friends again and suddenly the old feelings friend 1 had have returned (maybe they never really left) along with his old patterns... ughh
also there are weird vibes between me and friend 2

although I don't feel romantic/passionately for either they are both good friends

and I'm not really sure how to approach it... friend 1 is quiet overbearing and at the same time avoidant
while friend 2 I don't even think is aware of his feelings...
it is strange...