Fun? Absolutely not, imo
'the aethers are not without order, its just a matter of time until an entity or person is discovered doing harm. Enforcement issues, of course, but there are forces of good and justice, they can and they do make effect in both worlds.
And those forces are part of what we are too, as humans.
and not to make room for any excuse.
i have two thoughts for your consideration.
The first and obvious is having mutual consent with feedback to validate the reality of the effect our thoughts/dreams have on someone. Text is a great way to begin offering feedback, encouragement and/or discouragement, in a mutual dreaming or obo experience. Because when we see that we have the ability to reach out and touch someone from a distance then we can see that there is a right and wrong things to allow in our thoughts/dreams, no different than it is plainly unacceptable to see an attractive stranger in public and begin to physically touch them.
It is the same thing, when we know that we can do this.
Inner self control, we are all capable of it. Says something about character and integrity in a person too.
since few are aware of this ability in themselves it is far too easy to resolve that my thoughts are my own, my dreams are my own, its all personal and confined to the inner world of self and i can think, dream, fantasize anything i want to any time i wish. No such thing as thought police.
The problems perhaps arise when through personal development of abilities it all comes down to a mere slip of the thought, a moment of lack in concentration and focus. Perhaps an emotion or need surfaces beyond a persons ability to hold back. Happens in the real world, it happens in the aethers too, often with a little help from... friends.
Sometimes, god-mind or god-consciousness is attained without being aware fully through the established schools and methods, it is not offered to just anyone usually, as far as i know, and this subject is only one of the reasons why our extra perceptive abilities are not always met well.
that we can shift beyond the normal boundary of inner self as easily as one might rise from the chair to walk where we will.
inner boundaries, including the inner boundaries of others and not taking for granted that no harm is done by our own vain imaginings.
I'm hoping if the subject can be talked about rationally then we can all make a better resolution of our own inner conflicts so a better personal reality can exist for everyone else too.