A friend whom I actually dated a long time ago when I was young and immature, ask to hang out and it was a good night, nothing happened just conversation but the attraction was there, only better for we had both grown and become different people. BUT! she is actually still Married right now going through a divorce with someone she admits was a mistake to marry. (she rushed into it) but that's not really why I write all this, its my emotions I have to deal with, and this happens every time I am getting into a relationship, I start to feeling overwhelmed and consumed by the whole situation, which I suppose is common in this situation, yet this is more intense and makes me want to just get everything over with already so I can finally relax. but this is not a situation one can rush, and rushing tends to mess up relationships any how. and yes I have rushed all my previous relationships and they turned out... well lets just say I was single for 14 years for a reason.
so I guess if any of you wonderful people have any tips on dealing with this energy better, that would be nice.